djtfot: Seeing if there really are POF in the sea...
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Cincinnati, Ohio
33 year old Male, 5' 8" (173cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Libra
djtfot is actively seeking a relationship.
Masters Degree
Speech therapist

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Brown Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Under 1 year How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious
Pets No Pets  

About Me
I like to learn about how things came to be the way they are and also about the way things could be different. I LOVE to draw, especially faces. It’s a form of meditation for me and I’m always challenging myself to improve my artistic technique and perspective. I love most kinds of music and like to sing. I love going for walks and hikes in quiet places with beautiful views and good company. I enjoy visiting new places, especially if it involves sampling some local food and drink. I especially like having a good conversation with someone where we can get beyond the superficial and be genuine with each other.

I’ve been told that I listen attentively and offer good advice, that I treat people with respect, and that I give people the time and space that they need. I generally withhold judgment of how other people live as long as they aren’t hurting themselves or anyone else. Life’s too short to worry about how other people aren’t fitting into your labels. I’ve also been told that I have a way of putting things into words so that others can understand them without feeling like they’re being talked down to, whether I’m explaining something scientific or technical, or trying to convey my impressions or feelings about something. I say that I like to learn about all kinds of subjects, but recent conversations have reminded me that I'm actually interested in a more narrow range of topics. Namely, most things that I'm interested in have little to no practical application, except for making my soul feel bigger, like history, geography, the sciences, and languages. I generally sit back and observe other people before I talk in a group setting, but I’ve been told that I’m very easy to talk to once you engage me in conversation.

I suppose I could say that I’m looking for someone who is like me and shares at least some of my interests, and that's certainly important, but I’ve learned that what I really need is someone who compliments me. I tend to do best with partners who are catalysts, people who, through their vivacious and passionate natures, help me to break out of my comfort zone, to try new things, and to see the world in a new way. Maybe a person who is even a little impulsive, who occasionally gets into trouble by speaking without thinking, who is often unaware of life’s “rules,” but who is otherwise loving, nonjudgmental, and generous.

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
As far as places to eat, I'd prefer something that's not too stuffy, somewhere where we can feel comfortable. Maybe a walk afterward would be nice, or maybe even a little shopping at some shops nearby. I just want the date to be casual and to go at a pace that allows for us to get to know each other and spend a nice afternoon or evening together. Maybe the art museum as well? It's cheap and you can learn a lot about someone from how they react to art.

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