HappinessIsAnInsideJob: DO WHAT YOU LOVE!
Non-smoker with Athletic body type
Oceanside, California
53 year old Man, 6' 0" (183cm), Christian - other
Caucasian Virgo with Brown hair
HappinessIsAnInsideJob Wants a relationship
Bachelors degree

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Second Language French  

About Tom
I'm an intelligent, caring, and multi-dimensional guy, who is passionate about life, health, relationships, and leaving a positive imprint on the lives of others. I value friendships and the important role they have played in my life. In recent years, I have become so much more aware of the ripple effect each of our relationships has, and how each one of us will inevitably resonate in the lives of those whose lives we enter. Life isn’t perfect, but it will usually teach you what you need.

I've been exploring this fabulous adventure called life without a partner for the past 5 years. However, life is much more fulfilling when you have someone special to share it with! I am committed to being in a passionate, fun, intelligent, and committed relationship that's filled with romance. I am playful, adventurous, and enjoy exploring new lessons on a daily basis. The challenge is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everyone else. It will be refreshing to find someone who "gets it".

I lead an active lifestyle and am open to almost any activity. I'm ready to explore them all with you. I am young at heart and looking for the same. I enjoy spending my time near the ocean and coastal communities. The ease of the beach lifestyle, the restaurants with live music, and the great sunsets. I also enjoy the occasional weekend trips to the mountains, the desert, or winecountry.

My career-work continues to be a creative spring-board within my life, taking me to new places each year. It has taken me from NASA’s Mission Control, to teacher, coach, entrepreneur, business owner, and NCAA/USA Volleyball Official. Tell you more when we meet. I've been fortunate to love what I do, and do what I love!

I wish to meet an active and loving woman who will share a mutual attraction, core values, and similar interests, or at least, open to exploring each other's interests. Kindness and compassion for others are a must.

If any of this resonates with you, and you are a fun, fit, attractive woman, please drop me a line and say hi.


First Date
Definitely, something where we both have fun. I enjoy activity dates such as wine-tasting, street fairs, concerts in the park, or even meeting for coffee, or a drink, can work as well. Obviously, what ever we choose should lend itself to conversing and getting to know each other.

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