RiskyThoughts: making time.....
Non-Smoker with Average body type
Portland, Oregon
41 year old Male, 6' 2" (188cm), Non-religious
Caucasian, Leo
RiskyThoughts is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors Degree
Mad Scientist/Medical Professional

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? No Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Black Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 4 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog  

About Me
Just moved to portland from Houston, Los angeles, phoenix, Detroit, Louisiana, denver, Vegas.....okay so I get around ;)
I dont actually know anyone here..beyond a couple of coworkers..I do not drink and while I dont mind going out to bars....Id really rather not waste my evenings trying to find someone to date in one....so here I am instead....

I am first, foremost, and always...a single father...Ive been raising my now 17 year old twins alone for 15 years..This means my priorities are firmly locked....and unfortunately, but quite necessarily, this means my romantic life is often DEprioritized, But my girls are nearly grown, and I would like to start changing that.

I should add that there is zero "mama drama" to experience here...its been years since weve had any contact.

I was a body piercer when I was younger...Ive a few scars to prove it but havent currently any piercings remaining...Now Ive only a few small tattoos....nothing impressive or visible when clothed....I surgically forked my tongue back in 96...and had my ears surgically reshaped in '00. All this is to say, Pierced, Tattooed, or otherwise modified ladies are encouraged to contact me. Im very open minded and enjoy a bit of individuality...None of which is to say that this is a requirement....but I do find beauty in such things.

My musical tastes are fairly varied, I will have to admit I dont like country music.....but beyond that Im fairly open minded... While I do not define myself by any particular musically based subculture...I know people often do so.....Im not a hippy but I love the music of the 60s and 70s, Ive been known to hug a tree or two....I am NOT a metalhead...though I have certainly moshed a few pits in my day....Im not Goth...though guilty of the occasional guyliner incident in my youth....nor Punk despite having spent much of middleschool with a mohawk..

I AM A GROWN UP.....Im not a KIDULT.....
I dont obsess over others athleticism...Ive no concern for watching millionaires play childrens games.....
I dont play video games....my last game system was made by atari

I am literate, and I dont just read websites...I had an oregon library card days after I had a lease signed. Despite a busy schedule, I try to read at least one book a week.
I dont watch or own a television....I do watch a few shows online...and am slightly obsessed with movies.

I dream of wide open post apocalyptic highways....where the occasional stray zombie is the only obstacle ahead.....but with everyone else cramming up the road....and the boys in blue hiding out there too....I often enjoy working on my car more then I enjoy driving it.....

So with that oddly random taste of me.....

Im not looking for nor afraid of commitment, Ive been married before and would do it again....but not looking for that level of seriousness on POF...lets keep it a bit simple

I guess Im looking for a date...preferably a good date that will lead to future dates...LOL
Beyond that....who knows. Im open to whatever the future holds...

what Im looking for in a woman....
I typically find myself most compatible with Artists, Musicians, and Geeks...I need more then physical stimulation to keep attentive.

When attracted and comfortable with someone....I am quite physical...so if youre not looking for and open to, an intimate relationship....

Ive no concern for race, Id be shocked if you could identify my ethnicity....so please dont jump ads due to a "color mismatch"....we could both lose out if you do that :)

Similarly, Age is not a significant issue....Im neither a baby nor a granny chaser...Im just far more concerned with how and who a woman is then how many days theyve awoken on earth.....

I dont care if you still live at home or have had to return home....with todays economy being what it is...I see no issue...HOWEVER, regardless of your age.....If you need mommy and daddys approval to date me.....move along...Im an Adult in charge of my own life and decisions....I dont need to do Daddy auditions anymore.....This is not to say I wont meet your family if you want me to....just to say that if I feel like Im back in high school picking up a date....It will be the last time I do so....

I like Curvy women....but not voluptuous...if youve ever described yourself as any variation of the phrase BBW...probably not.
I like skinny girls....but not skeletons...I dont mind seeing some ribs...but protusive spines scare me.....

I guess that none of that does much to find the right person...but hopefully it runs off a few "wrong people"

I am not much of a game player so Im not interested in long drawn out email exchanges....but do expect a bit of communication before running out the door to meet you....

Ive noticed a trend of concern among the female authorship on personal sites......
The Lifestyle Inventory.....so before anyone asks....I do have a vehicle, a job, and an apartment of my very own....I dont live paycheck to paycheck...and I intend to keep it that way...

As Ive stated above, Im already a Daddy...so my "sugar" is carefully rationed ;)
Now if youve been naughty and need a spanking....Im your man ;)
but if your looking for someone to pay you...your a ho...and my names not john.
I know that is somewhat curt but given the internets reputation for being a redlight district I feel it necessary to risk the offense.

That stated.....if youre still here...
Then something in this rambling diatribe has captured your interest, or something about me has caught your eye...

Please give me more then a single line....I know its awkward answering ads....but you have to give me something to consider. I can assure you that there is little to no hope that I will reply to you if you message one or two words of hello. "hey there" "how you doing" "hello" may all work in person but not here. Ill assume you are either a bot, or incredibly uninteresting and just ignore the message 99.99% of the time. Catching my eye is far less important to me than catching my imagination.

First Date
the way to my heart is raw fish..... So sushi is a good start. Im game for whatever comes next

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