I am REAL, first and foremost. I am single (divorced), honest, loyal to a fault, very intelligent, educated and a geek/nerd ;) I am also a tattooed biker as well... yes, the same person. I am sort of dichotomous like that.
I think life was meant for two. Always having someone around to talk to, travel with, experience new things with. Having someone around to help you up when you are down and having someone to celebrate your successes with you and/or to celebrate theirs. Having someone that is your “home base” (someone that makes you feel like you are at home and comfortable regardless of where you are).
I listen mainly to rock (I listen to 98.9 but I sneak in a little country, pop and other stuff, too). I listen to everything from the Alice in Chains to Staind to Eminem to Kid Rock to The Beastie Boys to Aaron Lewis to Disturbed to Led Zeppelin to Pink to Evanescence and everything in between.
Let me tell you what I am:
-- I am very intelligent and educated (have 2 bachelor's degrees from MIZZOU).
-- I am a very nice, selfless man who tends to be that geek and be very shy sometimes (think "Big Bang Theory")
-- I am very honest (although tact sometimes is not present).
-- I live alone in a house in Grain Valley, MO.
-- I am single (divorced).
-- I own and drive a full sized truck as well as a motorcycle.
-- I am the father of 3 daughters (all the same mother... so sad that is such a good thing) who I see every other weekend (at least).
-- I have a minor in Classical Civilizations and want to travel to Rome, Cairo, Athens, etc. someday.
-- I am an information sponge… love to always be learning stuff… I always ask “why”.
-- I would rather ride motorcycle with a passenger than without.
-- I am a HUGE Chiefs and MIZZOU fan... I have to see every football game on TV or in person.
-- I am very liberal about most things, though I do still keep some of the conservative values I was brought up with.
-- I am a very loyal person. Never cheated on anyone EVER in my life and intend to keep it that way.
-- I am someone who enjoys fishing, but hunting, not so much.
-- I am a little over 5’10" and 190lbs and working on it.
Let me tell you things I am not:
-- I am NOT perfect.
-- I am NOT a charlatan.
-- I am NOT unemployed, looking for a “sugar mama”.
-- I am NOT going to be showing pics of me in my bathroom mirror without clothing.
-- I am NOT out here for just a “hook up”.
-- I am NOT like other men (players) that are out on this site. Please do not judge me according to other mens' actions.
-- I am NOT racist and I detest people that are.
-- I am NOT violent. I have NEVER raised a hand to a woman before in my life.
What I am looking for in a woman:
-- She must be honest, loyal and intelligent.
-- She, hopefully, will be willing to ride with me.
-- She will be willing to go to a concert, game, movie, bike rally with me.
-- She is ok with my daughters being in my life (part time). They are extremely important to me and do weigh in on many of my decisions.
-- She is looking for a long term relationship.
-- She must not be looking to have more kids.
-- She can be of any ethnicity as long as she is not emaciated nor morbidly obese. Just not attracted to that.
-- She is willing to spend time at home and just watch a movie or TV and snuggle with me.
-- She is willing to travel with me to explore new places. Maybe even go snorkeling with me.
Goal: It's that simple... I just want to go on the LAST first date I will ever have to have.
Honestly, the first date would probably need to be less of a date and more of a meet and greet situation over coffee, drinks, maybe a motorcycle ride??