First off I am looking for a Friend because how can one find a long term relationship without finding their best friend first? I am too nice and most women like men to be mean and that's not me. I dont like to have to play the BS game like kids do. I like you and either you like me or you dont, why play teenage games. We will both know in a short time either over the phone or a simple lunch if we have chemistry or not. If so Great, if not no hard feelings. We all have that little something that draws us closer to one another. it could be personality or eyes, maybe the smile with the combination the body or whatever? whatever it is we know when it is there.
I am a professional and spend most of my time working and playing with friends n Family. I am very personable and easy to talk with and a great listener. I have been a personal fitness trainer for over 20 years, so you can imagine how much patience I have (but that is my passion not my career) and I too am working on another "after" picture. lol... its never ending as I get older. :D
I enjoy a woman that I can have a normal or deep conversation with & we can both look and see something while we are out, then look at each other thinking the same thing n laugh without a word being said. As long and we both can enjoy our quality time together and not be having to check up on each other all day long. I don’t enjoy having to listening to someone babble about nothing and expect me to have additional input, only because I enjoy more stimulating conversation than shallow chit chat.(Sorry)That usually applies if the person is totally boring.--
you will prpbably here me go "huh" :) lol
I do like to have a beer with the boys or out by myself after work and have some space of my own and meet new people and have a few laughs and joke around with the people I see. (not no say that is what I want but I am secure enough with myself to be alone and not have to cling on to you) I like to... people watch, and try to figure out what their story is for the time I’m watching. lol.. So if you also enjoy watching people and analyzing the current situation we will have some good laughs. I also like to make a nice dinner for the special one in my life and take a walk n maybe sit outside afterward and watch the stars and chat or a nice show or movie snuggled close together.
Growing up as a little kid, my Mother had a day care in our home for over 20 years. I do enjoy the little ones and respect women that have children. I know how hard it can be sometimes, but that is what makes you a stronger woman.
I may stop by and view your profile to say hi or just look. I have noticed alot of Great woman and profiles that I am interested in... I would message some of you, but by reading what your profile says I didn’t want to waste your time because it looked like you may be looking for The Wrong Man, and believe me I have been wrong more than once and maybe I should have taken the first step but internet dating has not been very kind to me when it comes to meeting "real" people or real friends. Dont be shy;-) ...If I don’t reply to your message don’t feel bad, because we all joined the site called POF and the next guy is just a click away. Thanks for stopping by and have a Great day. :D
BTW my age is 43 and will b 44 in May 2011 but for your viewing reasons I had to put 36 otherwise you may not have stopped by?? Am I right? Age is only a number and how we look, act and feel is what counts, not what's on our driver’s license. :D
Find out what you like to do and go from there.. I don’t have a set first date plan because that is too fake ... Do you? Every woman is unique and I plan accordingly with her interests.. I feel it is best to let you be in your comfort zone on a first date and be relaxed to get to know each other better. Don’t you think so?