My standard description was getting a little long in the tooth, so I thought I'd update it. I'm Ben, as you can see here I don't look like Brad Pitt. If that's the kind of guy you want, I hope you find him, but that's not me. I'm Dubuque, born and raised, but I'm not a country boy, I'm a city slicker. If you want someone who likes to hangout in the sticks and go mudding and what not., again best of luck. Though I do like hiking. What I am is a freelance technology writer with a little PR on the side to help pay the bills. I used to write as hobby and I like it even more now that there's a check involved it. So, what do I do in my free time, should I have any? I like to go hiking and out on the river. It really clears your head. It also provides an avenue for taking a few pictures. Most of all, I like to expand my knowledge of things whether its technical things, SciFi/Fantasy, science, philosophy, religion, I just can't get enough. One thing though, I'm probably not yet best fit for those with children. I'd never say never, but that's not where I am right now.
What I'm looking for is my equal partner in this little thing called life. She doesn't have to match my interests exactly, but she should respect me for who I am. Honestly, if you try to change someone, they weren't the right person to begin with. What I like is smart and witty, but kind and tolerant at the same time. If she can match me on one-liners and come backs, that'll go a good way to getting me sold. Sci-Fi fans and science geeks also plug at my heart strings; doubly so if you're a Whovian. Mainly, I want someone comfortable being herself. If any of this looks, feel free to contact me. I'll be happy to answer any questions.