Been awhile since I've updated this thing so here it goes. Please read this entire message, I took the time to write it and I'd appreciate it if you would read it so that we don't waste each others time.
I love to play sports / be active and want someone that I can share that interst with. I grew up playing all kinds, of sports from soccer, cross country, track, snowboarding, waterskiing, jetskiing wakeboarding. I also have a street bike that I love to ride. I also like watching sports, but honestly would rather be outside being active. I can't emphasize this enough I really want someone who is active and will be up for living an active lifestyle.
I currently work for a large insurance carrier in Brea, but eventually, I would like to have my own business buying properties and fixing them up and flipping them or renting them out. I am very handy and can build just about anything. I have spent many weekends working on projects around my condo with my dad.
I'm a great guy, who is very well rounded and has a lot to offer for the right person. My family and friends are the most important things in my life. My parents are amazing people and have made me the person I am today. I have a very large family, my parents have been married for 34 years and I have 2 younger brothers and 3 adopted sisters. I grew up in Southern California and though I have travelled other places, there is no other place like it. I went to CSUF and graduated with a BA in Business Finance and a BA in Psychology. I want to go back and get my MBA. I believe that learning is a life long process and isn't something that stops when you finish college.
I'm open to different types of music, but I mostly listen to rap, hip hop, R & B, Rock.
First off, I'm 30 and this isn't my first time dating so I have a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for. Ladies, not to come off as superficial and I do appreciate the interest, but if you aren't active and inshape or at least look like you are I probably won't be interested. My typical week consists of work M-F 8-5 and then Indoor soccer games Monday nights, 3+ mile run Tuesday night, light gym work out Wednesday night and Thursday night, Outdoor soccer games Friday nights, 3+ mile run Saturday and Sunday mornings. I will take days off her and there depending on how I feel. I play hard, but I take care of my body and I want someone who can keep up.
I'm busy, your busy, but I'm a firm believer that you make and find time for the things and people in your life that are important to you. I'm looking for someone who wants to be a priority in my life and make me one in theirs.
I am looking for someone who has class, character, integrity, morals, drive, a sense of humor. Someone who makes me want to be a better person, someone who has that personality that when they walk into a room it lights up, that gives me butterflies in my stomach and I can't help but smile at when she's around. I need someone who is secure in who they are, understands that relationships are difficult and that they take work, that there will be good times and bad, but that no matter what happens they always have my best interests at heart and know that I have theirs in mine.
I believe that having a great career and focusing or work, should be mutually exclusive with having a great family. Family is huge for me, I want be close with my partners family and I want her to be close with mine. As I said before, I have a big family and we are all very close, I want that same experience with my partners family and I hope she would want that with mine. I guess my point here is that if you aren't the kind of girl can take home to meet my family we aren't off to a very good start.
I don't expect one person to be perfect, I'm certainly not, but if after reading this you think we might be a good fit please message me I'd love to hear from you. I don't think that you can sum up everything that I am or you are in a box, people are highly complex and I know I'm just scratching the surface here.
If I happen add you as a favorite and don't message you right away, it is because there was something about your profile I liked, but I didn't have the time to write you a message I felt you deserved. I'll try my best to write one when I can.