I like lots of different music. I used to listen to a lot of industrial and ebm when I was in college, I love bluegrass and DIY Punk, reggae, and classic country like Johnny Cash, June Carter, conway twitty, etc, but I pretty much listen to everything, metal, and horror punk too. i like to go out and see live music when i can.. usually in bars because its cheaper and more convenient than big concerts..or outside. i used to write and paint and sculpt and be involved in theater and sing in some bands, and its still the kind of person i am, however at this point in my life i am just too tired to be creative. one of these days ill find it again.
I’m 5'2", hazel/ sometimes greenish eyes, red hair, half Irish, half Canadian Inuit. though my hair is black right now just for fun. it was supposed to be brown but turned out black with a redish tint.. curse of the ginger. i cant make it stay any other color. yes i make ginger jokes about myself. i am also not sure whether i have a soul. i am an olive skinned redhead, yes i look like a demented christmas ornament in my natural state. lol i'm a nerd and i dont care what anybody else thinks. I am a woman now and not a teenaged girl, and sh*t happens when you get old. So you can’t expect a perfect body anymore. i've decided that i dont care about it and i'm not gonna waste any more of my life being upset over it, having a kid wrecked me physically emotionally and financially and now i'm over it blah blah snore and of that story. if thin is important to you dont bother talking to me. you can like me how i am now or just dont talk to me.
the most important difference about me is that i dont NEED a man at all... for anything. I Want one sometimes, though i am also fine by myself. nobody but me dictates what i do and how i feel. and if you just cant chill out and not give me ultimatums and threats i cant take it. i like a lot of freedom and calm. i wouldnt cheat or anything like that but i dont always like anyone constantly getting in my business and asking about every quirky thing i do, , i just dont see the point of being with somebody if all they do is stress me out while theyre around.
I grew up in Europe, I’ve moved around so much that i'm not "from" anywhere, just where ever i am now, i have no roots although someday i would like to grow them and give them to my daughter. i would like to be family oriented, but i just dont have one anymore. so i enjoy spending time with other peoples' families and hope to marry into one. I have some piercings (3/4"G earlobes, 2G tongue, various ear piercings with a chain running through them, 4G septum and both 10G nostrils, and two rhinestone implants in my neck) and tattoos (only 8), I plan to have more tattoos. i like body modification (duh). I will not change for anyone and I will not try to change you. if im with you its because i liked how you were when we met, so dont act like somebody youre not and let the real you out later. if you’re too embarrassed to introduce me to your friends and family, move on. i dont expect you to announce our engagement to the world, i just dont want to be hidden under a rock. i dont do casual sex (or whatever the kids are calling it now). i dont do games. you like me or you dont, and i expect a decision to be with me exclusively or not after a few months of "dating". i know what i think of most people after meeting them once. i am a good judge of character and i dont feel i have time for for anyone who is fickle or wishy-washy or needs lots of attention from everyone to make him feel good about himself. i've also grown tired of going out of my way to overlook certian things.. so if you do something i dont like i'm going to be the first to say it to your face.
i have a lot of animals but you wouldnt guess it when you walk into my house... i'm not like one of those stinky animal hoarder people you can smell from next door.. lol i have 2 female American Staffordshire Terriers (not english) who are sisters and squabble like it. i have 10 (and counting) exotic finches and canaries. but they all live in a large indoor aviary together.. so i dont have dirty little stinky cages everywhere.. birds in cages make me sad. and i was raising show quality Japanese descended Koi when i moved here but there isnt a market here and most people dont understand quality at all here (thanks walmart!), so now i just raise orandas and lionheads for my own pleasure. i also have a green thumb.. mainly for indoor gardening.. (no i dont grow weed, but i could make a fortune if i did) i have plants everywhere and my bedroom looks like a jungle. i have a 6 year old potted coconut palm tree which is my pride and joy of my collection. i have lots of various wandering jews, generations of spider plants, cacti, desert rose, water lilies and other marginal water plants (yes grown indoors), various other palms and dracaenas and i'm starting to get into orchids and bonsai. if that bored you to tears, then you wont be able to stand me, because thats the sum of my hobbies at the moment besides building custom wooden furniture.. i've had to sell most of my extra stuff due to my current situation so i dont have a bike or a motorcycle anymore or anything else to do really besides work, and go out somewhere once in a great while.
I can be feisty, and romp with the boys, but I can also be a sweet girl when I feel like it. i like custom cars and trucks and guns. nothing feels better at the end of a rotten day than to take a gun and go out and blow holes in something. Sometimes I say mean things, but it's funny so laugh. For boys who like toys... i drive a Jeep on a lift kit, and no, you don't get to drive :) I am intelligent, worldly, and educated but sometimes it takes people a while to figure that out since I don’t talk a lot and I can be shy. It takes me a while to really get talking to somebody in person, most people either think im not interested or dont like them because i choose to just not talk at all. but if im there its because i want to be, so that says something.. ive been known to just get up and leave places without a word, so if i dont want to be somewhere you know i wont. actions are always more important than words. I don’t do drama and games, what you see is what you get. I’m too tired for BS. I want to meet someone who is worth making time for and shows me they are. i am well aware that i am not an "attractive" girl, so that gets the part where you feel the need to tell me about it me of it out of the way. i've been around almost 30 years i have seen a mirror before. i tend to be suspicious of the intentions of overly attractive people, so be aware if youre attractive and happen to actually be genuine it would take me longer to warm up to you or take you seriously. so yes, i will admit that i am prejudice against attractive people but am open to changing my ways for the right one..
maybe just meet somewhere public and have coffee or drinks and talk or go for a walk. or i suppose we could plan some sort of activity like canoeing or hiking, if he promises not to chop me up and leave me in the woods... first dates are scary...
and just an FYI if youve read this far, not to sound crass, but when i sign on here i have 50 plus messages from all kinds of people, so if you really do want to talk to me, send me a msg that says something more than just "hi" or "what up?".. ask me a question or give me something more to respond to or i will likely just pass you over due to trying to read everybodys msgs and decide weather or not to take the time and respond... i can not respond to everybody id have to live my life on here if i did. not to sound ungrateful for the attention.. -also ive noticed that pof deletes a ton of my messages before i can read them all, so keep trying if you really want to talk to me. and sometimes ill be writing back and forth with someone and get on to read the latest one and everything is gone, so i dont know whats up with that.
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