If you want to be successful on POF, try this:
Talk about your hobbies.
Talk about your goals and aspirations.
Talk about yourself and what makes you unique.
Talk about your taste in music.
Eh I did all that in the past but now realize it's all about my pictures. It's all about looks whether you're male or female. Yet I personally get turned off when I see females here that appear to be full themselves with no intelligence and don't bother filling out a profile and just upload pics being infatuated with themselves and their bodies in the mirror. Just getting by on their looks, becoming prima-donnas and jaded by all these thirsty guys giving up their power and giving these women validation. Yes they are the best looking ones but like I said it's all about looks at the start. Quite a dilemma there but girl-next-door types are the best anyways, it's just too bad they don't come around here often.