I am probably one of the more honest guys you will ever meet. Lets face it, almost everyone on here is vain and looking to meet someone pretty. But that type of start to a relationship is closer to feelings of lust and almost sure to fail. I myself really like individuals, and while I enjoy a pretty smile as much as the next person, I really don't like perfect people. I prefer my girl has faults and imperfections. I admit I have a hard time grasping most people. I don't understand how most ppl can be so cold and indifferent. I don't understand how men AND women throw the L word around so loosely, and seldom back up those words with actions. I am not a perfect man.. but when I tell someone I am in love with them, it means something. Its not fleeting. To me its a promise that no matter what happens from here, you are in my heart forever. Maybe what we are won't last forever, but I will always be there for you, and you can always count on me... love is a cheap word nowadays, used all too oftern to get someone in bed, or to control someone.. and the second those things are no longer needed, the person who loved you so much now treats you with a roll of the eyes and apathy... I just don't understand.
I cherish the women who have touched my life. Maybe we didn't last forever and maybe at times there were hurt feelings as there always will be at the end of something..but always respect, caring, and loyalty. Now I want the girl who will make this song ring true:
But of all these friends and lovers
There is noone who compares to you
And these memories lose their meaning
When I think of love as something new
And though I know I never lose affection
For people and things that went before
I know ill stop and think about them
But in my life, I love you more.
I am at a really exciting point in my life. I have just moved here to Florida to take an amazing job. It's a chance to start over in a new place, and live the life I always wanted. So I am really inspired. I would love to meet the right girl, but I am not gonna force it either. Kinda pessimistic about meeting someone online, but I am willing to give it a shot! I am just a nice, normal guy... not looking for drama. I have loved and lost plenty for one lifetime.
Btw I am totally fine with making friends. I know no one down here and I believe men and women can be platonic.
PPS. If you're over 25 and doing the duck lips pose, it might be time to examine your life :P
Dinner, drinks, matching tattoos :P
Something low pressure, fun, and gives us the abilty to talk.
I'm usually pretty good at thinking of something fun!