Hello fellow fishing folks!
Are we REALLY looking or just window shopping? Please don't contact me if only interested in writing emails & texts. I'm interested in real contact like phone call & then face to face after a few of those. Also please be keep in mind that if you are so busy with work, school, family or other things & you don't make time for a friendship, then why be on here?
I love to laugh & smile.
I'm outgoing, warm, affectionate & considerate.
I enjoy stimulating conversation as much as quiet moments.
I have no drama & plan to keep it that way. Life is just too short for that.
I strive to live life with as few regrets as possible.
I treat people the way I'd like to be treated & think the world would be better off if more of us tried it (especially politicians & world leaders).
I'm community minded.
I have a stable job that I'm grateful allows me a lot of flexibility.
I get up to SC, MH & SJ quite a bit.
I'm rarely without a camera & I don't mean a cell phone one.
Looking for an overall nice, kind, honest, interesting, funny, smart, outgoing, stable, confident, considerate gentleman to enjoy getting to know & share this good life with. Nothing makes a guy sexier than being a good person & friend - Ok, salsa dancing (or at least willing to learn) definitely does.
Looking for one who can write more than one sentence but not a pen pal.
If there's no Love Connection, maybe we gain a good friend ?
What I've learned from online dating?
- Not everyone photographs well so don't go by just pictures. SMILES make a huge difference in all pics unless looking for a sulking, brooding type.
- Not everyone like to write much in replies.
- Can't expect to find a Brad Pitt if don't look like an Angelina Jolie. Keep expectations realistic.
- Plenty more lessons we can compare....
I find it kind of interesting that some on here feel that a 1/2 hour drive is not "local" - is that just laziness? I drive to Morgan Hill & Santa Cruz weekly for work & to SJ as well as SF for events often. I'd be happy to meet you somewhere in between but why pass up on a chance to come over to beautiful Monterey?
After some initial emails & a bit of phone time, meeting for coffee, hot chocolate or wine would be a good start.
Always prefer to be outside if the weather is good.
Chemistry is important & will determine if there are more dates to come. Then....SURPRISE ME ;-)
Am happy to meet friends on here as well. I have a number of awesome single girlfriends too.
Thanks & hope to hear from you soon.