**Unfortunately, I now feel the following information needs to be stated. My preference is to avoid being offensively blunt unless I feel I have no other alternatives. This is obviously now the case. If you have ulterior motives to trying to establish an in person relationship of some sort please don’t contact me. If you are not sure if you are ready to meet someone in person, or have no intentions of meeting in person please don’t contact me. For those that prefer to email, message, text, talk on the phone, or IM that is fine for a short time. I am here to make friends first and IMO that is done in person. If I am deciding to meet you in person it is for just that, to meet you, not to do the horizontal tango in the backseat. To reiterate, I prefer to avoid being offensively blunt unless I believe I have no other alternatives and that is the reason for writing the above.**
Above all I am here to make friends first. Don’t hesitate to get in contact with me if you’re just looking for someone interesting to chill with and nothing more. I love the art of conversation from the nonsensical to the most intimate and everywhere in between.
I am very easy going and relaxed so I can find enjoyment in just about anything. I like to be active and I enjoy playing sports, all of them. I like to watch sports but it always give me the itch to want to play so I tend to get hyper when I do watch. I don't really worry about what people think of me and I don't embarrass easily, because of that and the fact that I like to have fun, I tend to embarrass others with me. I don't do it on purpose, it just happens sometimes. But the ones that aren't embarrassed are usually laughing.
My actions are what convince others of who I am and who I am NOT. I have a certain set of morals, values, and beliefs which I try to live my life within. Obviously everyone is different and that is ok with me and I don’t see those differences as wrong; I see them as not my own yet still treat them in the same way I want to be treated. We are too judgmental in life as if there is anyone that is perfect or even close to it, though my sister is constantly telling me she is.
I like to question what I feel I don't understand, not to upset anything, to learn from life. It's not in me to allow my beliefs to be based off of something other than on my own experiences.
Most activities don't scare me away. Okay maybe scary movies, if you like them then you can hold me ;) Other than that if I haven’t tried it most likely I am up for anything.
Laughter is something that I believe very strongly in, we don’t laugh enough. I am constantly coming up with things within conversation which present a comical opportunity. Finding those things which are begging to be laughed at but others are too afraid to point out. Sarcasm always comes in handy at just the right moment. Along with laughter I believe we have to embrace our inner child at times, remember what is was like when you had no cares about anything and just did what made you happy, regardless of what others thought? Everyone should embrace this rather than get rid of it as most have been trained. That passion for life and living brings back a certain something for everyone which most of us lost long ago.
Sexually; I am not the one night stand kind of gal, everyone has their own likes and dislikes and one nighters are not for me. If I am going to sleep with someone then we are going to know each other.
A first date can be as casual as playing pool or as formal as going to a 5 star restaurant. I am easy going so I will enjoy either. The best first date though, would be getting out and doing something active.