There seems to be some controversy by an elite few on here as to how a woman my age should dress. This is for all of the guys who are sitting in your mommy and daddy's basement...hiding behind a computer screen with one hand in your pants and the other hand in a 50 oz. bag of greasy potato chips...keep your rude opinions to yourself! Just because I'm 48 years old doesn't mean I should be wearing the stretchy mom jeans pulled up to my neck and the oversized button up shirt that goes past my head! I don't dress like a Hollywood Hooker...I don't wear 50 lbs. of make-up and most importantly...I'm NOT looking for attention! I get up very early in the morning to exercise because it makes me feel good...I've been doing this since I was 14 years old. I also do it because I love to cook and I love to eat. All of my pic's are very recent! What you see is what you get...and I'm as real as they get! If you are fortunate to find your way into my heart...don't ever let me go! I'm not like all of the other women out there...I am the coolest chick you will ever love :-)
I'm the most loving, giving, caring woman you will ever meet. I've never been in trouble...not even a speeding ticket...doesn't mean I don't speed sometimes...Shhh! I don't do any drugs of any kind. I'm not the chick who sits at the bar every weekend...I rarely drink. I'm not a serial dater...this will floor you all, but I haven't dated anyone in over a year. I'm not the type of girl to ever sleep around...I'm not going to talk extensively with someone...make them fall in love with me...and then dump them because I want to see if I can do it all over again to someone else...guess that constitutes as a serial dater...a fake. I'm not a flirt...but...if we are dating...all bets are off...I am very flirty with the one I am with! Lol. Yes...I am very picky about who I date. I would rather be alone then be with someone who treats me like a doormat!
Looking for someone close by who actually has time and makes time for me as I would them. Someone who wouldn't mind spending some weekends with me. I want to have fun...not always sit around watching tv...I can do that just fine all by myself. I do have 2 kids full time at home, the youngest...my 16 yr old is Autistic so if that bothers you then don't bother with me. I am able to get out and do things as I have a responsible 19 year old son at home and also a respite worker who works for me. In a couple of years I will be an empty nester...but for now this is how it is. I waitress for a living but I don't work weekends, nights or holidays...29 years with the same place gives me that. Wasn't my dream job but rather it gave me the time I needed to raise my kids...we all know that's a full time job in and of itself. I am very responsible and have no debt.
I love to laugh and have a great, witty, dry sense of humor so I am looking for someone with the same personality. I live to love and love to live, so if that word scares you...you're probably not the one for me. I am very down to earth and rarely get angry, so I don't want someone who lives to argue. I tell it like it is...meaning I will say whatever is on my mind...no guessing games here! I don't spend my weekends in bars, but love to get out every once in awhile to hear a good band and have a good time. I'm the girl who always has a hug for anyone who needs it, but also the girl who loves to get hugs. I love romance...guess I'm old school?? I believe in God and Heaven and Hell...I don't carry around a bible...bake casseroles for the church social or even attend church...but none of those things make you a Christian. I'm not going to bust your chops if you don't believe in God...live and let live...to each his own.
Have a lot of little girl left in me and I may be somewhat of a dreamer...but it's what keeps me young ;-)