I realized I didn't put on here what I am looking for, so bare with me...I love to write! I am looking for that physical attraction but with that comes a very strong mental connection. It doesn't matter how good looking you are, if that total connection is not there then there's nothing! I'm not desperate and won't just settle for anyone. I am looking for someone with a great sense of humor...and maybe a little sassy, but someone who also knows when to be serious. It's important for me to build a friendship first. Honesty, integrity, respect, and lots of love are what I long for...and you must be loyal as heck!!
My favorite pastime is not hanging out in bars....unless there is a good band playing...love me some live music! I rarely drink, don't do drugs and have no debt and have never been in any kind of trouble. I guess I am a "good" girl in a sense. I think I have had maybe one parking ticket in my life...so it goes without saying I don't want any trouble in my life...in other words...if you've been living in a "gated" community for the last 5 yrs...you're definitely not my type!
Someone who doesn't know how to communicate and or can't keep the communication going is a huge turnoff. I'm talking about people with the attention span of a 4 year old...or the "Oh Look...A Squirrel" types. I'm not afraid to say what's on my mind either...I like to be just as surprised as everyone else at what comes flying out of my mouth.
I love to laugh so if you have a great sense of humor...we will get along very well. Nothing better than laughing!! All of the things I love to do are listed above in the interests section. Listening to music...concerts etc. is at the top of that list. Exercise is a huge part of my life as well...makes me feel good. Not much of a reader other than poetry...love poetry...also enjoy writing. Like my early morning coffee. I also love to cook and bake...love listening to my music while doing so...and maybe a little dancing in the kitchen with that. I am a neat freak as well, but never complain or bust anyone's chops over a mess....heck....I probably wouldn't bust your chops over anything...live and let live ;-) Someday I hope to move somewhere near a beach...it's always been a dream of mine....and I'm talking about the ocean...not in Wisconsin!
Here's something I read the other day...I found it very interesting. Only 2% of the world's population have green eyes...proud to be the owner of a set of green eyes...and they are as green as grass ;-)
P.S. I have the biggest, sweetest heart in the world, but definitely will not be walked all over or allow anyone to treat me bad...been there done that...won't allow it ever again.