It's time I guess to revise this. I have 3 kids, a 23yr. old son, 17yr. old son and a 14 yr. old daughter. The oldest still lives here...he won't leave! lol. He's paying off student loans and works so he's hardly home. The two younger kids I have 50% of the time. The youngest is Autistic, so if that bothers you...then don't bother with me. In a couple of years she will most likely go into a group home. I want her to experience some freedom. I would have to say my biggest passion in life besides my kids would have to be music. I absolutely love music, so if you listen to talk radio or think music is just noise...we WILL NOT get along at all. Music is what gets me through life and I love it! My favorite would have to be ALL of the music from the 70's and 80's...classic rock. My favorite all time band would have to be the Eagles...they are also on my bucket list of bands to see. In the last half year or so I have been listening to country as well. Heck, if it's music and it's good...I love it...doesn't matter what it is.
I want someone who can communicate and KEEP that communication going! Dang...I am so sick of meeting or talking to guys and everything starts out strong and then all of a sudden they stop communicating. There's nothing more annoying in the world and I would have to say that this is one of my biggest pet peeves! I'd love to find someone with a sense of humor. I have a very sassy, sarcastic (not rude) sense of humor. I want to laugh...nothing better in the world then having someone to laugh with...a personality :-) Also, I am a very independent, free wheeling kind of girl. I don't want or need someone who is controlling. I don't try to control anyone...I mind my own business....life is just much more peaceful that way. If I had my way...I'd be living on a deserted island somewhere, and....I would absolutely love it! Not a fan of winter...haven't been since I was a little girl.
I waitress for a living, but I've been with the same place for 27 years. It's a job. I am a very responsible woman....have NO debt and I don't live in a van down by the river! I enjoy communicating with a lot of different people, but on occasion you come across your ***hole....I don't like rude, condescending people...nobody is better than anyone else and it doesn't fly with me!
My other passion is cooking. I love to cook and would love to find someone who also enjoys cooking...or at least throw me a spatula every now and then. I just think anything you are doing TOGETHER is awesome really....it's called bonding. Some of the best things in the world can be cooked up in the kitchen! ;-)
I very much enjoy working out as well. No...I don't lift weights. I am very dedicated to my Rockin Body Workout.
THE PRETTIEST SMILES HIDE THE DEEPEST SECRETS, THE PRETTIEST EYES CRY THE MOST TEARS, THE KINDEST HEARTS HAVE FELT THE MOST PAIN.....
As a side note: If you are still married, just out of a marriage or long relationship....take some time to find yourself!! I've been where you are and I know what it's like to feel the loneliness, but you need to take at least a year to find yourself and to heal. I've been divorced now for almost 5 years and a few years back I finally got to a place where I didn't NEED someone but rather I WANTED someone in my life again. I am willing to wait for Mr. Right. I have come way too far and have lived through some very sad times and now....I can smile again!!
Not interested in hanging out in bars or guzzling alcohol as a sport. Those days were over 25 yrs ago...I rarely drink...just makes you fat.