What is character? What is commitment? What is it to pursue with belief and confidence? What is a relationship if not that?
I am looking for a physically beautiful woman to me that also has a beautiful soul and has character, wisdom and grace. We will all fail each other at various times in our life, but a truly loving person sees past our weaknesses to the person we truly are - equally from both parties.That might sound a little cliche or bit old fashioned, but I think a lot of that old conventional wisdom has been lost in our relationships. I believe in the underlying currents of a committed relationship, which allow time to shape our togetherness - through both the good days and the bad. I've heard from others that they want the type of relationship where as they age, they are respected and are also respectful; abiding within a loving relationship that endures in a sustainable manner. I understand and agree with that thinking, however it takes time and commitment.
Apart from this, I'm looking for you if you:
1) Have depth of character;
2) Are kindhearted, gentle and gracious;
3) Can see the bigger picture or at least appreciate it when someone else can;
4) Value Intelligence;
5) Have a sense of humour - especially if I can make you laugh at the ordinary things in life;
6) Enjoy going out;
7) Feel comfortable around influential people;
8) Feel good about your life and have room within your heart to share that with another;
9) Understand that in life we go through seasons, but that the seasons (the good and the bad) should never impair the journey.
I most certainly am not your "average bear" and people typically pick up on that from me very quickly. Mostly, people don't understand me while in plain view, because of their own preconceived notions or interests. I am both 'simply understood' and 'quite complicated', but that also gives me the ability to understand people and very likely you. My overall desire is for a committed, loving relationship filled with a mutual acceptance and understanding; and, to live our lives with peace and joy between us!
In a dream I had not long ago I was engaging with a beautiful and wise woman. As I was seeking for an opportunity to win her love and although she expressed interest in return, she knowingly turned to me and said, "If you can tell me in one phrase what it is that epitomizes who a woman like me truly is and it resonates completely within my heart as true, then I will love you forever. However, if you give the wrong answer, you will lose me forever." Now this had become my challenge and it haunted me greatly. If I say the right thing, then I will enjoy her for the rest of our days, but if I say the wrong thing, I will lose her forever. I left her presence to contemplate the answer. Myriads of thoughts were going through my mind, but none were elegant enough or comprehensive enough. I was completely lost. Over time I continued to ponder this. Then it struck me like it was there all the time, "This woman is like a very fine precious wine to be fully savored". I thought to myself, "This must be it!" But no sooner had this thought formed in my mind, it was dashed! I thought, although this sounds right, to enjoy the wine is to consume the wine. This woman is not one that you consume. This was the epiphany that I needed....
If you are this woman, then I am prepared to give you my answer...