First off, please do not inbox me your number as an introduction or after one note exchange. just like when you meet someone in person-you generally chat for a few mins or more, and if the vibe is there then numbers get exchanged, same thing online (at least when dealing with me). Yes it happens slower online (chats happen faster in person) but it is what it is. if you dont have patience-then we probably aren't a good fit anyways;)
I'm a real down to earth type of girl, but at the same time with my head all in the clouds. I'm full of lofty ideals- a Gemini to the tee! I like to stay home as much as I like to go out, if not way more,lol. I swim a mile at least three times a week-I love love love to laugh and don't get to do it enough;( Very independent, I like my space as much as i like to hang out or cuddle. to pass the time -I enjoy reading, writing (mostly songwriting but other stuff too), hanging out, love anything creative, dabble in music production, i'm a budding web developer;) love going out to eat, love to cook, love outdoorsy stuff, travel is high on my list as I love to experience different smells, tastes, sights and sounds, and the list goes on...I'm into all kinds of stuff-like most people. I do enjoy the finer things, while appreciating the simple. I'm spiritual, not religious, opinionated, yet open-minded. I can find beauty and perfection in everything, even the dark. I'm really laid back (originally from cali), loyal, and honest. I'm also very independent and have lots of goals, but my overall goal in life is to be successful enough to be a great philanthropist- and simply to have an amazing life while reaching my highest potential, and helping others to do the same. I am not perfect, but a work in progress and am looking for a man who can compliment me and grow with me, as I do him. I LOVE children and would love to have a family one day-but am fully prepared to live a life full of travel, adventure and espionage if I dont have one!!lol!
BTW-fellas...as a result of my wacky inbox, just to save us BOTH some time:
1) if you write me making sexual comments, requests, or inquiries-i wont respond. yes, they're real. every thing about me is:)
2) if i cant see your face (and how u look in general) CLEARLY... if your hiding behind sunglasses/hats in every pic, or its all blur- probably means u have something to hide...yikes!!!lol!! so i probably wont respond.
3) if u come off as illiterate-i definitely wont respond,lol.
4) if your a thirty-something year old rapper, or hustler- smh, keep it truckin. sorry. u can also keep it movin if in your picture i can see ur pants are sagging to ur knees, u have a du-rag on ur head and u and ur boys are throwin up gang signs in what looks to be the hallway of the projects;) so sorry. i like swag, i really do- but with class.
5) if you got a bunch of other women in all your pics, skip me, i dont want to be part of your "stable" playboy.....i know, i know, that's really your "sister, cousin, niece, friend, co-worker"...whateva! hint: this is a DATING site! a bunch of pics of you and other women (unless its obviously your mother) are a turn off to any woman, it doesn't make you look more attractive or desirable, it makes you look like a player and it makes you look dumb. you probably wont get many chances to explain that that girl in the pic is really your lesbian roomate. duh!
6) if this seems like alot of reading for you, and it took you forever to get thru, and your tired now...keep it moving. i like literate and intelligent men who arent overwhelmed by a few paragraphs. writing me with jokes about how long it took you to read this and how tired you now are is not cute, nor a conversation starter...in fact really just convinces me that you are probably pretty stupid:) too bad the school system failed you:( lmfaooo
if your offended by any of this, you probably don't qualify and you know it. feel free to hit me up with your insecure comments now, as im sure i've pushed your buttons,lol.
i dont mean to be harsh, really...do i sound like an ass? well i guess i can be, sometimes. most times im not. i swear. hehehe