Meeting up for coffee or a drink. I think sitting and talking to someone is the best way to get to know them.
*Hey guys I thought I'd let you know that your user name says lot about you. I've seen some really crazy ones on here. We do pay attention to that sort of thing. Please do not bother messaging me if you are looking to just play games, no commitment, casual dating but nothing serious. I'm sure there are many women on here on that same page but I'm not the one.
** put your shirt back on.