Why does every woman out there want "Prince Charming" when they all know he is fictitious? No guy can stand up to that reputation. He is going to fail in some sort of way no matter how hard he tries. Yes there are great guys out there and I try to consider myself as one of them. For instance I have a job, a car, I pay my bills and help others out when I can if they truly need it. I hold doors open for everyone, not just women (But women in particular I do) I say yes ma'am and no sir and yes please and no thank you and will help anybody out I can if asked and am able to. I don't hit woman or children or yell at them violently like I have seen out in the world or during my career. But I admit and I’m sure most women will too that guys falter from time to time. We have slumps, we have moods, we don't always look like the way we did when we first met. Physical attraction is great but that physical attraction must lead way to a deeper more passionate attraction or else nothing will come from the relationship. I am a firm believer that you have to be physically and mentally attracted to someone in order to really like them but the later attraction can far out way the previous if the connection is made right. If you have nothing in common but you both think each other look great then there is nothing to build a relationship on but if you think, "hey, they are pretty cute and they seem to like everything I do" then that is the basis of good relationship. You have an understanding and a common ground and general appreciation of where the other person is coming from. As my heading states I guess I consider myself more as the "Jester" than as "Prince Charming". I like to joke around and have fun but can be serious when needed. I’m not too much a fan of large crowds just from simply dealing with my job but on an occasion I’m fine with it. I'm playful with kids, I'm loving to my partner, I'm supportive to everyone. I am not the best looking guy in the world and I could stand to lose a couple pounds here or there but I am what I am and you get what you get with me. I hold nothing back and am truthful with what I say. I would like to find that person to compliment me, to make me whole, to fill the yin to my yang so to say (corny I know) but it’s true. I like to work on everything and see how it all works. I like to sit on the couch and veg out and watch movies all day or get up and go mountain biking or hiking or even just for a long drive for the day. I love to cook, just not for myself and I eat anything, I am a foodie. I have high morals and high standards of how I live but I am not religious. I know for some or most of you that is a killer off the bat and I am sorry for that. I have no qualms with your religious preference and will never ask you to change it for me. I am who I am and you are who you are and that is what makes us US. If any of this sounds like something you would like to talk further about or if you would just like to chat about the weather I am here. I hope to hear from any and all of you who wish to contact me and maybe if the circumstances are right we might just hit if off. Thanks for looking and reading this far and hope to hear from you. Ya'll have a good day I hope and happy fishing if I’m not your catch. :) Oh, about the attraction thing, I'm sorry and really flattered but I am not attracted to black females in any way other than friends. Thanks though.. really :)
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