First off, I do not respond to "meet me" requests or "flirts". If you cannot take the time to send me a message, then do not bother. Those notifications are irritating especially when the other person isn't even saying anything. If I am interested, I will answer any question...if I'm not, well I think you get the idea. If you are disrespectful or rude, it will get you no where. I know there are some genuinely nice men still out there....I'll wait, I will never settle. And to clarify...what I mean by wanting to date, but nothing serious is that I want to take it one day at a time. Sitting around waiting on Prince Charming is absurd so I am giving this a shot. I am not husband hungry...I am willing to take the time and allow things to progress naturally. If all else fails, I still may gain a few friendships along the way.
Let me update this a little further, because it is quite obvious a LOT of you do not read these profiles so let me see if I can make things a bit clearer. Please do not ask me anything I have already answered. It is annoying and shows you lack attention to detail and really just like to look at pictures, I'll pass. Vague messages such as, but not limited to, "hey, hi, wassup sexy, why you single, etc." will get you blocked. If you want to be treated like a grown man, come at me like a grown man. I am ABSOLUTELY NOT interested in joining you, your wife or any other third party for a date, sexual romp or anything of the sort. Not knocking how you get down, but I am not interested. Telling me I look exotic or questioning my ethnicity is not a compliment...it is rude and at this stage in the game, really none of your business. I am who I am and what my parents are or what countries they may or not be from is irrelevant and a lame ice breaker. If you have gold teeth, pass me on by...it ain't happening. Nothing against you, just not my thing. That's all I can think of right now, but I am sure there is more I could add to the list.
I am not super picky or complicated, I just am at a point in my life and I know what I like and I know what I do not. Everyone reserves that right. I in no way take it personal if who I am does not fit into the mold of what a man is looking for. I would think my being upfront would be more widely accepted since I did say I was only interested in men 30 and up. What I have come across here are a lot of overly sensitive, whiny, self entitled, misogynistic, absurdly sensitive men that are not even capable of a 10 min conversation let alone making a reservation at a restaurant. I'm still here because I still have faith and well, I have about 15 min or so a day to peruse this sight and see whatever messages may have been sent my way. I think I speak for most women when I say, step it up brothers, it may be 2016, but chivalry is not dead. Yes we want respect and to be viewed as equals, but we also want a man to act like a man. For the right man a woman will allow him to lead and she will follow.
FYI. I have all notifications turned off for this site because it's annoying...I do check it usually once a day or the next, depending on how busy I am. So please don't get all in you feelings if I do not get right back to you. I do not like to be smothered and I do not smother others. So even if you don't send me a message, make sure whomever you do, you do it with class, respect and sincerity. Have a great day!