what keeps me busy and out of trouble. Work, 2 kids, coaching girls softball travel teams, playing coed softball, Sunday night fun bowling league and a little NASCAR! What's odd about me is that I'm in sales but I am naturally a shy individual...odd! Don't worry, if your willing to start a conversation with me, I can be very engaging. I was married over 14 years and divorced a little over 6 years. I have not dated much over the 6 years. I decided the best thing to do was focus on being a single parent and keep busy helping others. I have been told that I have no "game" for trying to ask someone out on a date, let's keep that a secret (wink, wink) I am not the most stylish man. I choose comfort over style. I think the most underrated thing in life is a home cooked meal. I am one that can be spontaneous but also capable of planning or following a plan.