Why are there so many people on here looking for a partner in crime? I'm not interested in robbing banks or burglarize a house.
I travel frequently for work which can be exciting, and at the same time exhausting with the TSA screens, checking in and out of hotels, etc. Many time I find myself coming home only to pack again to leave the next day. It does feel like my own house is just another hotel. Only this one doesn't have maid service. I juggle free time for volunteer work, family and friends. I still enjoy it, and spend my moments enjoying laughter and stories with my large family, close friends, and yes the occasional strangers. I am lucky that I have a large family, and a large group of good friends whom carely deeply about me. I enjoy it when my friends and I think of silly ideas then taking the ideas too far i.e. toilet papering a friend's house. Yes it is childish, but it doesn't happen as frequently as you may think, and we don't take ourselves too seriously.
I love to cook and I am always open to trying new recipes. I can get creative, once I made cheeseburger dumplings with 3 different dipping sauces. They looked like Chinese dumplings, but tasted like Bob's Big Boy's burger. If you have any recipes that are awesome or creative send them my way. I'm also big on photography, but I'm realizing it is an expensive hobby. So many different type of lenses I want to purchase and use for neat photos. I usually take my camera with me to the Getty. I love relaxing at art museums.
So if you have good heart, some humor, genuine, like to cook or try, at minimum tolerate kids, have a decent relationship with your family and friends then I think we are half way there.
I don't think every first date should be the same for every person like the bar, coffee, dinner or movies. It will always be dependent the interest.