I'm an adventurer at heart looking for my SOULMATE with a fairy tale ending! I guess most women will want to know that I am kind hearted, and NOT A CHEATER! I am a hopeless romantic and tend to pamper my women. CHORES: I am very mechanically and electrically inclined. I made most of my home renovations myself. I enjoy putting in the extra touches that set home apart from the average house. I'll help you cook or clean up after dinner; I will help with laundry, dusting, the windows and floors, bathroom etc. I iron my own shirts etc. I figure if I live there... then I should help out as well. ROMANCE: I love to cuddle on the couch with a good movie; if the movie stinks... then we make our own! I enjoy sitting on the deck watching the wildlife and sun set, while holding hands and sharing a drink. I love to take a walk and talk... I am the type that will pour your bath and have the candles lit, a glass of wine ready, and soft music playing... you unwind as I start dinner. I love many different cultures and types of ethnic foods. Japanese and Thai are some of my favorites, as well as Italian, Greek, Mexican, and "classy country" etc. Most of these mentioned, I can cook/prepare myself. I have been told quite often I should have attended culinary school...LOL
I make my own sugar scrubs, and give great hot oil massages. I really don’t run with the guys... and if your "my girl"... I'll usually bring you along... because if you are with me... you will probably fit right in with the guys! In fact I see my mate as MY BEST FRIEND and wouldn’t really want to be away from you more than a day or two at a stretch! I'm the type of guy that if you walked in front of the TV during the game in a towel.... I guess I would have to read the scores the next day.... ;^) I think you get the picture! I am a gentleman first and foremost, I have an old fashioned military upbringing. I'm a strong defender of women.
I believe in GOD and family first. My convictions are strong and... NO ONE will ever disrespect you if I'm around. I am a CHRISTIAN and I do attend church. So you must be a Christian and/or open to my belief system in order for us to get along. Having gone through some pretty amazing things this past year; I can say with out a doubt that JESUS answers prayers! I have read "The Shack" twice and "Experiencing God" once... going to return to this book again...
This next paragraph causes me to wonder... "Is A Sexy Christian" an Oxymoron? [Definition: Sexy is an adjective to describe a sexually appealing person or thing.] Who said women can't be both?
My match should try to be attractive, somewhat HWP and very intelligent! I have to have mental stimulation as well as physical. I prefer women between 5'-0" and 5"-7" and less than 150 lbs. 150 lbs. on a 5' frame is not average nor HWP, so please be realistic. I'm not expecting a Barbie, and I can handle "a few extra pounds" ... so don't be too critical of yourself. My compatible age range is from 38-48 +/- a year or three either way. I say this only because I find many women my age ready for the retirement home and VERY set in their ways. Therefore if you’re around my age, please be outgoing, open minded, and not frumpy or dated! I don't do well with the fuzzy bunny slipper, grumpy morning type. I also don't do well with the women whom sleep in Parkas and Sweat Socks... LOL ...and save the curlers and mud face for the spa!!! I don't want to appear mean or demanding, but we all have what we are attracted to and what we are not. I don't think you would like to see me walking around the house with "morning hair".... green teeth and in my underwear all day. I'm not a bubba! I prefer a romantic woman whom won't mind me nibbling on her neck while WE make dinner, if it burns... then we go out! I have been known to put on music ... open abottle of wine... and slow dance in the kitchen while cooking dinner.
I love to find out of the way places to dine... or visit a craft fair, or an art exhibit. I love a picnic on the motorcycle going no where in particular, or a boat ride. I enjoy lying out under the stars... and thunderstorms huddled up under my gazebo. I love to share a light bite, a glass of wine, and then hit the dance floor. I county fair is always fun... love to show off by winning my girl stuffed animals.... I'm usually up for whatever that will be fun, and will let us talk and get to know one another.
I tend to aree with the POF profiles of my relationship needs and most of my chemistry profile... however the SELF CONTROL topic is WAAAYYYYY Off Base..... I have extraordinary self control if the situation requires it! So look them over if you want more insight...
I would like to take my date to a place she has never been, or try something she hasn't thought of doing. I like to mix a little adventure with a touch of romance.
A ride that takes us to a different city or an event like a craft fair could start the day.. or I might drive an hour to a restaurant that has a special atmosphere and super food.
* If you are a light smoker that only smokes when drinking.. or trying to quit I can tolerate that... otherwise I mean no disrespect... but my head can't handle the "smokes often" and frequent type.
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