Hello there! Ok, I'm going to start off by saying, I am single, never married, six year old son, and I am looking to first meet, then click, then kiss, then fall, then long term, then who knows!
So with that out of the way, where to start.... I'm a movie buff, always throwing obscure quotes out there, workout (though I do take the winter off), hiking (especially in Yosemite), outdoorsy type of stuff, love camping, riding my mountain bike, play guitar, write my own music, meet strange new people, hang out with friends, going on little mini-vacations, listen to and find new music from obscure bands you'll never hear of, the list goes on, if you really want to know, you could always ask and I'll get into specifics. But really I'm the type of guy that would be just as happy going out with the boys or sitting on the couch watching a movie with my mom. I'm really easy going, extremely patient, and to be honest I like to be a little sarcastic at times, but you know in a playful way that makes you laugh. So someone who is confident and can dish it right back at me is always fun. Actually I'll tell you what, confidence and self respect are probably some of the most important qualities that I find in a woman. Even if you aren't content with the way you look, if you come across as confident and cool, I got to tell you, that is probably just as attractive to me as if you looked like Selma Hayek or Scarlet Johanson. And also, someone who is down to earth and has a big heart is huge plus in my book. You know, someone who drops a dollar in the guys hat playing an out of tune guitar on the corner instead of walking by and pretending not to notice. It doesn't matter what the guy does with it, all that matters is you cared enough to give. Little things like that matter! But all in all, everyone has their own little quirks and qualities and that's what I look for. Shoot, that's what makes any of us special and different. Quirks and Qualities! What makes you different? What makes you special? What do you bring to the table? And most important, what am I going to miss about you when you are not around? What's going to make me keep checking my cell phone to see if it's working because you're number hasn't popped up yet?
Basically, I'm just looking for someone who I click with. Someone to bounce ideas off of. Someone to look forward to talk to at the end of the day. Someone to just call up spur of the moment to catch a flick or go see some random indie band playing at the Glass House! Shoot even someone who has a Dland passport and we can meet up infront of Small World just to watch the fireworks at 9:30 pm! And also someone who is not relying on anyone but themselves for happiness. Someone who is not too clingy and likes their own space. Don't get me wrong (and this is important!), I love someone who always wants to spend their free time together because there is nothing on this Earth like that feeling of excitement and butterflies when you know you are going to see that someone special, but it's still nice just to have that alone time to where you can miss that person when they aren't around and appreciate those little things that make you think about them so much. But ultimately, I want to be in a relationship, and more importantly to fall in love with someone, and know that that person is also feeling the same way. To support someone in their decisions and their life and and have them support mine as well. To be a team once again! I guess that's what I miss most about being in a relationship.
There's plenty more but I'm already told my profile is too long! So,if you have any questions, ask away! I won't say I'm an open book because that's so cliche, plus, I'm really not. Because as with anyone whose been burned in the past, walls are built and they aren't easily taken down overnight. But if we click and you seem sincere and genuine, then hey, I might just throw you a sledgehammer! SO with that being said I will be honest. And I hope that you can be as well.
And I'm a monster music fan! I have over 100gb collection and I totally obsess with labeling and rating it everyday! Yeah, I'm a little OCD about that.
Fav. Bands - Interpol, The Twilight Sad, Radiohead, Smashing Pumpkins, Snowden, Radio Dept., Asylum Party, Joy Division, The Chameleons UK, The Sound, Film School, Engineers, Soda Stereo, Lucybell, Lowlife, Minus the Bear, (of course the standard The Smiths, Morrissey, Depeche Mode, The Cure pretty much anything 80's!), Agollach, Alcest, Blut Aus Nord, The National, The XX, and the list goes on.. (if you want to check out my music history, you can check my last.fm under my same username, and if you're on there already add me as a friend, think I only have like 5 right now!)
TV - Arrested Development, Childrens Hospital(check it out it's funny!)Big Bang Theory, Modern Family, Firefly, Castle, Scrubs, How I Met Your Mother, Workaholics, The Office (YES I WANT A JIM AND PAM type RELATIONSHIP), The Mighty Boosh, Black Books, Blackadder, Peep Show, Spaced, Dexter, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate, Stargate Atlantis, Farscape(yes I'm a sci-fi nerd), Metalocalypse, ATHF, IT Crowd, Entourage, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad...
Movies - Well I honestly won't even get into that on here. Way too long a list!
-Internet dating creates the perception of abundant supply. No matter how many people we meet, we feel there are still lots out there. The supply erodes the value of any one individual. As a result people pass over great relationship opportunities on the hunt for the ever-more-perfect one. We skim the surface, rather than deep dive in the experience of dating.-
...but I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.