We should learn to stop trying to convince anyone about your worth. Either they see it or they don't; and if they are not open to seeing it, then they don't deserve it. So with that said...I'll continue by saying...I am a very cool down to earth guy that might not be your typical because i still believe in chivalry and yes, I mean it. I was raised in a home not a house and with manners that i still have. I have also had the opportunity to experience differnt cultures, learn different languages and live in three different continents and so I do appreciate diversity and if that isn't your thing? Please stick to your old ways. If it'd worked for you in the past I'm sure you wouldn't be on here. I enjoy life and take pride in my appearance and my different pictures is a way of showing that i can get in from a fitted suit for an office function or a date night dinner to a casual Friday night at an upscale lounge or just taking a walk at the park on a nice summer evening. I am intelligently diversed with culture and class. A life loving person who knows how to have fun and at the same time work to have fun. I am best describe as being genuine, warm, romantic and affectionate..I'm less superficial than you can imagine so if beauty is all you have please just give thanks to God cuz he made you that way and can take it in less than a second. Character goes a long way for me and I am also a sucker for an intelligent conversation filled with humor. So feel free to express your feelings and will be surprised how down to earth I am.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
PLEASE READ!...update 4/16. I hope this can help someone. I just want to use this space to address the recent alarming rate of domestic violence in the DMV that has led to the death of at least 3 women and a child in the last couple of months. Ladies please please!! be careful of who you decide to have kids with. If a man can decide to take the life of his own child and the mother of that child, then I think he just wasn't deserving of fathering a child with any woman. We can go back and forth arguing on how difficult it is to get out of an abusive relationship but I'm sure it isn't that difficult to get into one in the first place and even to the point where you've already had a child for this man which you'll still have to deal with for quite sometime Cuz he also has rights to his child or children just for their interest Cuz every child needs both parents. Please don't ignore the signs. He might be able to hide them at first but as human beings we can only hide our temperament for sometime. Once you see a sign, PLEASE RUN! It can be verbal, physical or emotional and don't try hang around for another one. Domestic violence doesn't see race, ethnicity or economic status. It can happen to anyone. Don't get carried away by how much connection you feel you both have, the fact that he is your type, you see a bright future in him,he says he will change and of course that the sex is good etc etc. Trust me its not worth losing your life over all these and making your family go through the anguish of losing you to an idiot that you should've avoided right from the first sign. Yes the court might help but only when something crazy has happened. Just avoid letting it get to that point. So please if you are or you know someone that is in an abusive relationship. seek help somewhere or try to help them. Talk to anyone! A family member,coworker, church member or a friend. Please don't be ashamed, there is help out there. I hope this will at least help one person.