(Revised profile) I want to start off by saying that this is a long introduction but if you're really interested in knowing me then continue reading, if not please keep it moving, I won't be offended! Now I understand that some people are not texters.... But I am not going to just give out my number to a bunch of random dudes because they don't want to text. I would love to talk on the phone as well but how about we text for a little bit to see if we can even find anything out about the other that is remotely interesting enough to be worthwhile of exchanging numbers? Nobody wants to take a minute to just see if there is something there anymore. I know without a doubt if I can find anything of interest in a man with a few text conversations and decide if I'm gonna give him my number or not, and you know the same thing so what's the problem? And one more thing, a conversation is a fluid thing.... It should just flow back and forth, not reply every hour or so. If we're talking and your responses start coming sporadic and irregular, that is NOT a conversation that you find important and we both know what's going on with that. You want to talk to other people while your talking to me that's cool because that's what we all do on here while looking for our perfect relationships, but I'm interested in a man that can at least respect me enough to allow me the courtesy of a conversation that is just for us at that moment, and not him going back and forth with other women at the same time. I only say these things not because I'm some crazy chick that is a control freak but because I'm tired of this game and just want serious people to try to connect with. That's why MOST of us say we're actually here for, to find a serious relationship! Those of you who read this and say "this chick is outta her mind, screw her!!" your the ones who are just playing the field and looking to score! And those of you who understand exactly what I'm saying and can appreciate this, your the ones who is looking to WIN the game! Now (my original profile) I am looking for a man who just "gets" me...who understands and wants the same things as me. I am looking for a friendship first and then God willing a long term relationship. I am not looking to have a once in a while conversation or see you only once a week or even worse, only a couple times a month. And although I love to text when appropriate I in no way shape or form intend to have a relationship via text! But it needs to at least start that way! That seems to be the way things are done these days and I am not playing that game. That to me is not nurturing a relationship and allowing ourselves to get to know one another. I am a loving woman who wants to share and enjoy my life with my man. I love being outdoors and being spontaneous, I have a little crazy side to me but also a conservative side so I might not jump out of a plane or anything like that in the name of fun or trying something new! just saying....lol. I love to laugh and hold hands and I love romance and affection above all else. So if you don't like showing that even if your in public then I am not the one. I love cuddling and kissing...I am not into the club scene but maybe a adult version of a club like a Jazz club or a Comedy club would be nice...I am up for most anything as long as I am with my man I am happy...some people say I am "needy" and "expect to much time" well I think that if your into the relationship and not playing the game on the side, then you would want to spend that time with someone you claim to be with....I mean why wouldn't you? I am looking for my last true love...I want it to last a lifetime when I find it so I have to make sure the chemistry is strong...when I love, I love hard and I love completely so again, if your playing games please keep moving. I love most music and am easy going with most things, except being lied to or ignored...sorry but that is a pet peeve of mine...hehe...the Scorpio side does tend to come out with that! Otherwise I am a happy go lucky woman....anything else we can talk about on our first date. I am ready for that, are you?
My idea for a first date would be to go somewhere fun where we could interact but still talk and get to know one another..like bowling or just a walk in the park. If there is a connection, a spark or any chemistry then we could plan for a second date. But then again, I am open to different ideas and I am easy going enough to do whatever my date would like. Compromise is important to any relationship no matter the stage it's in.