I am looking for a man who just "gets" me...who understands and wants the same things as me. I am looking for a friendship first and then God willing a long term relationship. I am not looking to have a once in a while conversation or see you only once a week or even worse, only a couple times a month. And although I love to text when appropriate I in no way shape or form intend to have a relationship via text! That seems to be the way things are done these days and I am not playing that game. That to me is not nurturing a relationship and allowing ourselves to get to know one another. I am a loving woman who wants to share and enjoy my life with my man. I love being outdoors and being spontaneous, I have a little crazy side to me but also a conservative side so I might not jump out of a plane or anything like that in the name of fun or trying something new! just saying....lol. I love to laugh and hold hands and I love romance and affection above all else. So if you don't like showing that even if your in public then I am not the one. I love cuddling and kissing...I am not into the club scene but maybe a adult version of a club like a Jazz club or a Comedy club would be nice...I am up for most anything as long as I am with my man I am happy...some people say I am "needy" and "expect to much time" well I think that if your into the relationship and not playing the game on the side, then you would want to spend that time with someone you claim to be with....I mean why wouldn't you? I am looking for my last true love...I want it to last a lifetime when I find it so I have to make sure the chemistry is strong...when I love, I love hard and I love completely so again, if your playing games please keep moving. I love most music and am easy going with most things, except being lied to or ignored...sorry but that is a pet peeve of mine...hehe...the Scorpio side does tend to come out with that! Otherwise I am a happy go lucky woman....anything else we can talk about on our first date. I am ready for that, are you?
My idea for a first date would be to go somewhere fun where we could interact but still talk and get to know one another..like bowling or just a walk in the park. If there is a connection, a spark or any chemistry then we could plan for a second date. But then again, I am open to different ideas and I am easy going enough to do whatever my date would like. Compromise is important to any relationship no matter the stage it's in.