Age: 55
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Redvelvet4u: Nothing ventured .....nothing gained
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
Tacoma, Washington
58 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Methodist
Caucasian Libra with Mixed color hair
Redvelvet4u Wants a relationship
High School
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I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Other Eye Color Hazel
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? Yes
Longest Relationship Over 8 years

About Me
Hello ... Have learnt a few things about meeting others here. Some times we meet and the chemistry is there and sometimes its not. We sometimes can feel a connection just by short emails and quick phone calls. But I have come to feel that without seeing a picture makes it even harder. I dont think requiring a picture on your profile should be an expection for we might have reasons its prefered not to post one. I Have decided though i must see a picture before i meet you. Its only fair to both of us. For if we both dont feel an attraction to each other arent we just wasting each others time. On the shy side though warm up with those I feel I can relate to. In the place it asks what I am looking for. In the long run would really like to have a long term relationship. To get there you got to hang out first... You got to become friends.... You got to date.... Get to know each other in all parts of life.

Not always good about making the first move even on here. .....lets say hi to each other and see if we connect ....

Found this on a forum hope no one minds if I borrow it for it does describe me well


I’m a social butterfly, I cannot deny
Asking the questions; what, where and why
I live and love to set all things right
Harmonious relationships kept in sight

I try to balance my life, if that fails
I can fluctuate wildly, unbalanced scales
But I need to understand just why
You relate to my thinking, ‘I’ to ‘I’

I need to talk, to understand me
There’s no harm in that, don’t you agree
I think I’m ugly, you don’t think that
I’m so slim, you say; but I’m so fat

I can be a very flirtatious cuddle
But I cant make choices, I get in a muddle
Social calendars are all set to dating
Get myself dressed to go on relating

I’ll do the talking so about me you learn
Enough about me, now it’s my turn
You’ll find me good company all the while
You bask in the glow of Libra’s smile

First Date
First Date = So many ideas come to mind. would be nice to meet along the waterfront, spending some time walking and talking with each other (on a Sunny day) as we get to know the other. Watching things going on around us and sharing ideas of what interests us.
Could be a short (or long) meeting over coffee or a soda.
How about an ice cream cone?
Maybe a meeting in the isles of the Grocery store just to see what each other is like.
A bike ride through a park
Could be a choice of many depending on what we decide together...

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