I am JOY by name, by choice, a reminder of what I embody.
I am originally from New Zealand, I have been traveling this hemisphere since 2000 as a professional speaker, author and life coach, teaching people by example how to live more joyfully and less stressfully in three minutes or less.
No-one has more fun than me, but that gypsy life made a long term relationship challenging. I am living in San Diego and spending a lot of time in LA deciding where of these 2 places to settle, ready to embrace romance :)
I would love to meet an attractive, confident, positive man who understands the concept of full personal responsibility, is complete unto himself and looking for another complete being to dance alongside him.
A man who will laugh and play with an open mind, an open heart, a love of life, a ready smile, and a low tolerance for BS and negativity.
A kind, good, spontaneous, happy man with a great sense of humor. One who is willing to climb a tree - or at least doesn't mind when I do, and who also looks good in a suit.
Someone who honours time apart as well as together.
I am interested in sharing time with all kinds of open hearted, open minded people who enjoy discussing ideas rather than people.
Life is too short to have ordinary dates. If you show some imagination and suggest something different and we can have as opposed to 'lets have a coffee/drink/lunch I'm much more likely to respond.
I hear San Diego is filled with exciting things to do, and you can tell a lot about a person by the adventure they suggest :D Lets explore something interesting together - no that was not a sexual innuendo.
At the risk of scandalising everyone I have to confess, I'm not a fan of the beach.
If you are wondering why I haven't responded to your email it's because I know you haven't read my profile.
I appreciate the compliments but automatically delete emails that consist of "r u beautiful?" or "Hello how are you?" because it tells me you never got past the pics.
And while your pics tell me a WHOLE lot about you, (I teach face reading) if you haven't looked past my pics to *** offer a pertinent comment on my profile*** we probably aren't going to be a match.
I am 49 POF won't let me change it - if you are smart your pertinent comment will be more creative than "You don't look 49"
Have an adventure! Don't panic, to me LIFE is an adventure. Exploring new things together is a great way to get to know each other.
I live by the 11th commandment: Thou shalt not bore God.
I have a very low tolerance for endless emails, I'm an old fashioned face to face person. If I like you I'll suggest we get together for a chemistry check asap.