Are you looking for someone that:
- treats a woman with respect
- is charismatic
- has a good sense of humor
- has wisdom (not a know-it-all d-bag)
- is confident in any situation (not****)
- is pleasant to be around regardless of external circumstances
- is always considerate and compassionate
- is educated
- can handle and appreciate almost any personality (yes, even your crazy uncle Ned and aunt Edna)
- has cultural experiences that make for a well-rounded person
- is open-minded
- doesn't get upset over spilled milk
- is genuine
Congratulations! You may have just found what you're looking for.
But don't send me a message just yet....
My time is valuable and I don't like to waste energy.
Please DO NOT contact me if:
- you are not a genuine person -- this pretty much sums it all up, but I better clarify
- you have ulterior motives -- one girl was literally sleeping with contractors in order to get a better deal on her house.... WTF
- you are hiding something -- photos include full body shots.... don't show only face photos and then list "Thin" and be "BBW"
- you are lying about something -- I know you don't like you're age bracket results, but lying is fraud
- you are committing photo fraud -- have recent photos that accurately portray what you look like now
- you aren't seeking a relationship -- this may sound redundant, but trust me, it is absolutely necessary to clarify
- you are looking for someone to take care of you financially -- re-read "ulterior motives" post
- you have nothing but problems -- emotional problems are for your therapist, not me
- you need a father figure -- see above
- you complain about everything -- nobody wants to be around a "Negative Nancy"
- you only want a pen pal -- some people only communicate in order to live vicariously and have no intention on meeting anyone
- you only want a free meal or drink -- I am sure you can find another "door mat" to cater to you
- you are a high-maintenance princess -- see above
- you are only looking to have sex -- everyone has physical needs, but I am not THAT easy
- you have an IQ below room temperature -- I enjoy stimulated conversation, not banter about celebrity gossip, etc.
- are uneducated -- I don't care about college degrees, but if you can't write or speak coherently then we won't make it to the next round
- your attire for going out is sweat pants and a hoodie -- that is SOOOO unattractive. I don't care if it says "Pink" or any other word on it. If you want to be treated like a lady, then dress like one. Again, I don't need an evening gown type of girl, but please take care of yourself. It doesn't take any more effort to wear something decent.
Now, if you are still here, you are attractive, you are fun to be around, you are intelligent and you aren't bringing a bunch of excess baggage, then and ONLY then, feel free to contact me.
Oh, and if you fit all of the above, please DO contact me. There are a lot of women who will not contact anyone because it doesn't seem to fit their personal ideal of "boy contacts girl first". Listen, this is POF. Look at the top of your screen right now. There are approximately 503,185 people on the site right at this very moment. Chivalry is not dead, but let's be realistic. If you see something you want, then you should inquire about it.
Good luck to EVERYONE on their quest!
POF, please rename this section "First Meetup" because it is always best to set up a simple coffee/drink of choice meeting initially. That way if there is no chemistry, we can just part ways gracefully.
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Age between 21 and 99.
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Must not do drugs
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