I describe myself as a mix of gentleman and sensitive guy...but also a bit naughty and sometimes crass; there's an inner-18-year-old in me who comes out to play now and then but I do know when it's time to chase him away and get serious. While I do like to laugh, am playful and have a great sense of humor there is also the other side of me:
I am real. I am honest. I am genuine. I work hard. I don't play head games or fake anything. I am monogamous and not a player. I have integrity and I don't cheat. I am spiritual, but not a bible-thumper. I do consider myself a self-less person. I like doing things (including the little things) for others and if you have my heart, I don't count the cost or expect things in return. I am somewhat chivalrous, but not a chauvinist. I'm basically a good-hearted guy who wears it on his sleeve.
I have been divorced a couple years and am more than ready to move-on. Dating has been a challenge because my schedule tends to be pretty full between joint custody of my 2 daughters and work, but I can and will make time. While I do love my daughters very much and am active in their lives I am not looking for a mom for them as they already have one. We do share the girls peacefully.
The kicker is that I have a culinary education and, therefore, am a gourmet cook...so I do enjoy cooking and envision being in a relationship where the lady cooks along with me, though I don't mind doing it on my own.
I am looking for a steady relationship with someone who: communicates well, is spiritually in-tune, is okay with me having kids and maybe has a couple of her own (okay if you don't, too), values physical intimacy, and likes to both hang-out at home and get out for a little adventure here and there. Extra points if you have window-to-the-soul eyes, are a warm hugger and take care of your health as I do...and no, that does not mean you have a perfect body by any means, just that you are conscious enough of your health that you take care of yourself.
So, if this all sounds good I hope to hear from you! :-)