tommmmm: with loves and hates and passions just like mine..
Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Parsippany, New Jersey
38 year old Male, 6' 3" (191cm), Non-religious
Caucasian Scorpio with Blond(e)
tommmmm is looking for a relationship.
Bachelors degree
information technology

current objective: 220lbs. looks like this.

I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Undecided/Open
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Somewhat Ambitious

About Me
Godot is waiting on ME

are you a little offbeat but not fatally so? know a bit about all kinds of indie, punk, electronic, and other non-mainstream music? do you do detached third party observer pretty well? what's your opinion on llamas? can you syncopate the rhythm generators but appreciate a well played guitar? you've noticed that poetry isn't always words, and art might not be limited to your eyes. snow covered sand with the sound of waves across a desolate beach, listening to the cocteau twins on a misty day. wondering if this film your watching is just a collection of non-sequiturs but loving it none the less? you're on the right track.
do you not know what the hell i am talking about at all, but wouldn't be adverse to finding out what this strange babble is? that's cool too, i don't have a mold i'm trying to fit any one in, just want to represent a little of where i'm coming from.

are you rigid, very-opinionated, aggressive and selfish? the next profile is just a back button away. shoo! that's the only thing that outright irritates me. (and friendly advice, the louder the voice, the less worthwhile said)

things that i'd rather not deal with: country music, hearing the word "yo" more than 15 times an hour, militant idealogues, disease, the police, conspiracy theorists, l. ron hubbard, chiropractors, barry mannilow, tassels of any kind, hiphop that isn't hard enough to step to me, sequins, blood, theives, dr. phil or oprah as a religion, musicals.

i'm more of a surreal guy than that REAL GUY i keep reading about, but i guess beyond the silliness and the boredom with the things we're supposed to like and think about and all that, i'm a very warm hearted, good natured guy, who relishes peace of mind and a good hefeweizen here and there.

things i do: play guitar, write electronic music, occasionally write a odd poem or two, play videogames, go out once in a blue moon, work at a small company as the IT dept, muddle about with my phone, make snarky comments, goof about, meander, and be

here's a dumb poem i wrote for another profile in the long forgotten age where friendster and livejournal still roamed the young earth. :) still, i like it.

i'm walking on the wilde side
somewhere voltaire wouldn't dare
as if bukowski fell from heaven
landing square on baudelaire

(yeah, bukowski and heaven don't rhyme, but it wouldn't be right if they did, would it?)

i'm alright looking i suppose, some people find me attractive, other people, well, they don't matter much. :)

Currently kinda over weight, but working actively to correct that. Have a home gym that I use an hour or two a day. Now is your chance to get me on the cheap cuz this character will be leveling up from here on out, and I know POF will become less relevant the closer I get to 220 and being too busy looking good. (Had surgery, got fat, acknowledged my laziness and taking action.) Last you'll hear of that. Just watch. I'm coming :)

unlikely inspiration: nikola tesla, kurt godel, john keats, "kinda blue" by miles davis, Fallout 3, documentaries about nuclear bombs, "Hearts of Space" on NPR, ian curtis, jesus christ, heironymous bosch, fydor dostoevsky,cesar milan, richie hawtin, german shepherds everywhere, bukowski, clint eastwood, gregg araki, steven wright, larry wall, anais nin, rube goldberg,posthumous use of billy mays in commercials. commercials about catheters, persephone's gathering of flowers, dr octagon, john keats, waterhouse's "ophelia",, kevin sheilds, william s burroughs, marcel duchamp, attention deficit disorder, stockhausen, of being and nothingness by sarte, mersault in the stranger by camus, the pink panther cartoon, the films of maya deren, ken nordine, gabriel faure, peggy lee, lemony snicket, philip glass, mr wizard, frogger, the nothing (neverending story), mike tyson, fred rodgers, gregory peck, survival research labs (20+ ton robots doing subversive performance art = high-five), emergency broadcast network, rhubarb, don quixote, vodka, creativity, and potato chips

try to be you, regardless of what you think i'll think of you. i promise to try to do the same..

“Like most qualities, cuteness is delineated by what it isn't. Most people aren't cute at all, or if so they quickly outgrow their cuteness ... Elegance, grace, delicacy, beauty, and a lack of self-consciousness: a creature who knows he is cute soon isn't.”
? William S. Burroughs, The Cat InsIde

NP: Anna Oxygen - Scientists

First Date
let's get bubble tea. or play checkers.

o/' if it's not love, then it's the bomb, then it's the bomb that will keep us together. ask me ask me ask me o/'

If your name were an acronym, what stand for? I'm pretty sure mine would be To Obliterate Mankind, or maybe Talent Orchestrates Madness.

let's do covers of vapid top 40 hits with acoustic guitars steeped in echoes and reverb till they sound like ghosts adrift over silent waters. you in?