PREAMBLE: Please do not ambush me with an instant message unless you have been invited or we have been communicating and mutually decide to switch to a chat. I am usually multi-tasking when I am online, and will not drop everything else because a little box pops up on my screen at an inopportune moment.
Also guys that put no more effort into a message than to say "Hi" or "How are you?" or my least favorite "Hey sexy" get ignored and sometimes blocked. Guys, I'm dying of boredom here! Doesn't anyone out there have a working brain? A personality?
I'm a cool, kick-back girl with a good head on my shoulders and a fun personality. I'm originally from the East Coast with small-town New England values. I'm the youngest child with three big brothers so I can hang with the fellas (think: climbing trees, catching snakes, racing frogs and turtles, and playing co-ed sports). Only in my youth, of course, lol. Although I'd probably expose my own children to those little life pleasures.
A former actor/ dancer/ WWE Girl turned writer, I'm currently writing a screenplay and creating an original tv series. Until I begin making a living doing what I love, I am working a 9 to 5.
I look and feel MUCH younger than my 42 years, so I tend to be most compatible with somewhat younger (BUT NOT IMMATURE!) guys. Guys my age or SLIGHTLY older (NO OLD DUDES!!!) aren't a problem as long as you haven't given up on life and let yourself completely go, and haven't turned into a more boring version of your dad or grandpa. So if we're the same age but you look like a grandfather, or worse, ARE a grandfather, sorry, but I most likely won't be attracted. I'm still VERY vibrant and young-at-heart, and expect to always be to some degree. It's just who I am. So cranky, cantankerous fuddy-duddies need not apply!
I've dated white men almost exclusively all my life, and LOVE European and South American men. Sorry if this offends anyone, but I DON'T DATE BLACK MEN. Let me repeat that. I DON'T DATE BLACK MEN! If you are a black man and you message me, I will know you didn't bother to even read my profile and you'll get no response from me. Nothing personal; I love my people. But I come from a large extended family, and dating a guy who resembles my dad, brothers, uncles or cousins in any way does NOTHING for me physically. In my case, ONLY opposites attract! (At least physically...)
Since we can all agree that attraction is IMPERATIVE, if I don't find you attractive, don't take it personal, nor will I if I'm not your type. My ideal man has a BEAUTIFUL FACE (that I would enjoy gazing at for the next 40 or 50 years, even as it ages), CHARISMATIC and DYNAMIC personality (that will entrance and entertain me and everyone in your atmosphere no matter the occasion or setting, NO SHY WALL FLOWERS!), SHARP mind (that will challenge me daily and keep me engaged and on my toes), and GOOD heart (that will keep me in awe and in love, day after day, year after year...). He genuinely likes and respects women, and he's totally down for his girl and those he loves and would do anything necessary to protect them and keep them happy. He appreciates a WOMANLY, not boyish figure. (Yes, I am a thicker girl; not the Size Double-0 skeleton that seems to be so popular these days!) He's intuitive enough to recognize when he has a thoroughbred, and creative enough to do whatever is required to maintain the bond we share and the sanctity of our relationship.
A KILLER sense of humor is a MUST! I can be very silly, goofy, playful, offbeat... and I don't want the task of having to "bring anybody out of their shell". It's not my desire to introduce a grown man to his inner extrovert. IF YOU DON'T HAVE A WELL-ROUNDED PERSONALITY, PLEASE MISS ME and find yourself a Polly Purebred type who has the patience to "work on you". I DON'T. PLEEEEASE come to me fully-formed and ready to embark upon a WHOLE relationship, or DON'T STEP TO ME AT ALL! My days of making over a man from the inside out, only so other women can benefit from years of my emotional investment are OVER!
I am highly motivated, but not desperate, to find my lifemate, (I abhor the connotation of the word "soulmate"), fall in love, maybe get hitched ( I don't want or need a big, traditional wedding), and have some genetically-superior children in the near future. When that time comes, I want to raise them with all the love, guidance, education, and openmindedness necessary to introduce a few more upstanding contributors to the moral fabric of society. If you have to break out your tattered, or worse, pristine high school copy of Webster's Dictionary in order to understand any of the words I'm using, YOU ARE NOT FOR ME, and you don't possess the genetic lottery from which I want my offspring to draw from.
Lastly, DO NOT mistake my "sexiness" as an invitation to sex. That is a right I reserve for my significant other. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN RANDOM SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS WITH COUNTLESS STRANGERS OFF THE INTERNET, no matter what you think you are "sensing" from my photos/ body language/ "come hither" looks/ or "bedroom eyes".
So. Is there anyone still standing???
If your ideal first date is to interview each other in some quiet, boring coffee shop while we add to the awkward, nervous tension in the air by getting wired on Colombian Supremo, we're probably not compatible. Any setting that makes it conducive for us to have fun and show our personalities works for me. A ball game (especially football and basketball), comedy club, a fabulous meal in a restaurant with atmosphere, Dave and Buster's or Gameworks, cosmic bowling, mystery dinner theatre, a day at the amusement park, or just drinks and appetizers in a cool lounge with a chill vibe would all be great getting-to-know-you spots.
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