My upgraded membership expires in less than 30 days now. I have to admit... i don't see the benefits of that at all. On the few dates i have been on, from this site, men ask how men compare... so here is the answer to that upfront.... My pictures are professional and look great. In person, i look great for my age.. but maybe my personality isn't exactly matching the fantasy attached to the picture? who knows. I am discerning, i want to see who you are, what effort you will make. eye contact, etc. i couldn't care less if you buy me drinks, coffee, golf, or a ferrari (hmmmm ok if you buy me a ferrari, that's a game changer.... and.. uhm... red please). I am ridiculously honest. i am the same always. I love to laugh, have fun, i love to learn about other people. I am a fairly basic, and simple woman.
What i see here is........"ok you are good... but let me see if i can do better......and i'll get back to you", sort of attitude. For all the talk in these profiles of men not wanting a hook up... it seems.. that's pretty much the plan here.
don't lie, if you have several dates and you want to test everyone? fine. just be honest. lying is ridiculous.
that is NOT my game here. uh yeah i like sex. i adore it. but not willing to have sex with everyone that says hi just because i am 53. sorry... and.......uhm........GROSS! Looking for someone that can last more than a couple of hours.. take a MAN to keep a woman interest past a 1 hour booty call. silly!
I am a country girl, looking for someone to have fun with. I have a good sense of humor, a little sarcastic, and sometimes facetious. I find witty bantor fun and flirty. Not mean... just fun. I love the outdoors, and yes of course i enjoy shopping. It really hard to talk about hobbies, because i would like to try new things.... i would love to do ballroom dancing or salsa, or something like that, would be fun to golf with someone, and doing goofy things like ifly, and cart racing, and renting a ferrari on a racetrack, or maybe a whitewater raft trip.
My goals are to find someone to go places with. I am unique, not sure what makes me that way.. you'd have to see for yourself. My taste in music is classic rock, new country, some classical... no rap (i only listen to rap at stop lights and gas stations). Can't really explain who i am here... but i believe there has to be a physical and mental attraction.
I am interested in men taller than myself in heels, (not the men.... ME :|) and the same or better career wise. (i can support myself thank you very much) That's not because i am snobby or pretentious, just how i prefer it to be.
please... no married men, and no separated men no one under 48 or over 60. sorry, i am 5'8" and i wear heels... MUST be taller than me in 3 inch heels. I prefer men in decent physical health and shape. Don't have to be an adonnis... but not interested in sloppy either.
******* please don't message me if you don't have a picture. I will not respond to meet me only requests.. you need to read the profile.. and you need to be alike to most of my physical characteristics...ENGLISH MUST BE YOUR PRIMARY LANGUAGE... no stolen valor, and no widowers with young daughters.. again... ewww...
I am a conservative/republican and my religion is protestant. these are important to me. I do discuss politics, and i do discuss religion... we have to have the basic same beliefs on these.
if you have NO pictures without sunglasses.. do not contact me.. you are not the terminator and i can't see you with the shades.
this whole "baggage" issue: we all have it. i get it. but your family isn't more important than mine , your ex drama isn''t worse and vice versa... you know? Integrity, respect, honor, honesty..etc etc etc... (goes without saying).
yes i am a nurse........but i have no need to take care of anyone... i am looking for a partner... friend.. blah blah blah.. not another patient.