I want a man who doesn't think with his "equipment", but his heart! Someone who treats me special & respects what I have to say; doesn't mind me speaking my mind! A man who's romantic & sexual when we are alone, but someone is smart that makes me proud of him; creative & spontaneous at the same time. Who keeps the relationship interesting; adventurous & sweet to me. Treats me like a princess & loves doing new things & ready to settle down and have a family. Doesn't drink all the time, but with friends & special occasions. Someone I don't need to be supported financially, but wants to support me in everything I do; who doesn't mind me showing so much affection (PDA) & his friends think I am the right one for him!
I love cooking and catering to someone I care about. I'm willing to compromise on things. I will NOT compromise on having a family. I'm very family oriented and hope you will be too. I'm honest, kind and forgiving. I just don't like to be ever lied, cheated on or any type of dishonesty. If you have any mental or emotional problems or baby mama issues I may not be the girl for you. I can only tolerate drama to a limit.
Don't get offended, this is MY preferences. If you think I'm shallow that's your opinion, this is what I am looking for:
I'm looking for a guy who takes good care of his body. Working out & keeping it up. I don't want a lazy fat man who doesn't watch what he eats. I'm a fit & active lady and I work hard to keep in shape. Fitness is very important to me and I hope it is to you too. I want a guy who dresses well and who knows how to relax at home. I love boxer-briefs on a guy! I love a well groomed man. I believe if I keep myself well taken care of I expect my guy to do the same.
I would like our first date to be somewhere quite where there can be lots of communication between the both of us. I live near the water so walking on the board walk or beach would be nice and romantic too. Dinner and dancing is a great way to keep my attention too. I am a girl so nice flowers are a nice touch to get "brownie points"!