Hello. a bit about myself. First off I am looking to make friends with the possibility of more if I feel a deeper connection. Once chemistry is felt the progression usually takes care of itself from there.There is also something I need to mention. Keys to a successful relationship are faith, communication, honesty, and respect just to name a few. These are elements that I cannot live without. If you don't feel the same way then you are better suited for someone else.
A bit about my personality you will find. I am a people person but with great caution. I am open and friendly once you get to know me, however when I am around new people I tend to step back and listen more than talk, especially at social gatherings. I am also self motivated and I like to motivate other people. I don't think that I am a funny person but my friends crack up when hearing some of my crazy stories and experiences. I have been told that I am a bit of a smart@ss but it is all in good fun. I feel that I am an adventurous person and I am always up for a new challenge. Some of the adventures I have been on, to name a few, were skydiving, swimming with dolphins, paint balling, swam in the Marianas trench and my travels abroad.
I believe in being an honest person. I will tell you what I like and what I don't like. Here is an example. I don't find it acceptable when people are late and those who are married to their cell phones. I consider both to be rude. I will handle either situation like a gentleman. Sometimes there needs to be a rescheduling, other cases children might be involved. I understand when there are extenuating circumstances, so don't feel that I am inflexible. I know both our time is a valuable and often a rare commodity. Either of those consistent patterns of behavior can bring our time together to an abrupt end.
I am a very active person ,I cannot sit still for very long. Ask anyone I know and they will say I always have to play with something in my hand.(...some peoples mind tend to go in gutter when I say that...haha but it is true)This is what keeps me in shape. I can go on and on about myself; however, where is the fun if I told you everything? Just ask me yourself.
I also want to mention I am here to meet people, not be a fantasy email partner. I like meeting interesting people. There is so much to learn from others knowledge
Since I am active I want someone else who is also active. Someone who is at least as fit as me and can challenge me. And I love a challenge! For example ,We could spend a day playing volleyball or basketball whooping each other's ass.
Think you can beat me? We will see.
If you feel as if you connected with me on some emotional level then send me an email. I do ask that you tell me about yourself.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
The first meeting is about discovering whether two people are compatible. To me dinner and a movie won't suffice. It is a standard, mediocre fall back when someone lacks a better plan. I prefer a relaxing environment where I can spend some time to get to know who that person really is. A meeting for drinks in a little cafe or a walk around the park can be fun and soothing. There is no pressure on either person. If no chemistry is felt, then it was nice to meet and I wish you luck on your quest to find the right one. On the other hand if there is chemistry then let the real adventure begin.