Ideally, I would love to meet someone who knows how to have fun, loves to laugh, has a sense of humor, understands the importance of family, and can't imagine the world without music and art. My tastes are all over the board; I love the blues, new country, classic rock, R & B, motown, and more...
I would like to meet a man that has some of the same interest as me and not be afraid to share the interests that we do not have in common. I am looking for someone that can have an adult conversation. It is easy to find someone that can carry on a conversation, but it is not easy to find someone that can listen, challenge your intellect, or cause you to think of new possibilities. On the other hand....actions speak louder than words. Behavior and actions say a lot about a person, as does the company they keep. I'm not impressed by cars, "things and stuff," it's the way a man treats the people around him that matters to me.
I want to feel the excitement of getting ready to go on a date and while on the date realize that I will be even more excited next time. I think most of us are looking for the same thing; someone that is faithful, committed, honest, truthful, non-judgmental, a good conversationalist and listener, knows how to be intimate, loving, and makes you feel safe.
I believe a societies civilization is judged by the way it treats it's animals. If you don't love animals, we're not a match.
I could go on about my interests, and more....but the truth is, we'll know if there's chemistry on the first meeting...then we can take it from there.
Musts in life: Laugh with "Conviction", Love with "Abandon", Live with "Passion."
First "meeting" would hopefully be outdoors, maybe a patio type setting...there's always "the unknown," so I like to keep it short and hopefully.....a first date would follow. It really doesn't matter to me where we go; what is important, is that there is chemistry. I would rather be overlooking a cesspool with someone I had a connection with, than to be on a tropical island where there was no chemistry at all.