I love to go out and do various things and staying busy. I love road trips and summer days out on the delta, I like to go out to the movies and going to dinner, I still go out to clubs/bars sometimes and I enjoy hanging out with friends. But as much as I like to stay busy I also enjoy lazy days at home on the couch. I'm a leader not a follower and I have so many various interests that I just can't fit into any one mold. I prefer to listen to rap, hip hop and r&b music but I do have a variety of music on my iPod....just no country.
My friends would describe me as a social butterfly or the life of the party. I love to laugh. I have my silly moments, but I can also hold an intellectual conversation. Watch out.....I'm a bit of a smart ass. I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me, but rather someone to compliment me. While I do believe that solid relationships can't be formed overnight I would really like to meet someone that I can get to know and hopefully form a serious relationship with.
While I have no preferences regarding height, hair or eye color, or race. I am looking for a relationship and I'm not interested in anyone that lives far away. I also prefer men that have a little bit of a bad boy side to them. So tattoos and/or a Harley are a HUGE plus.
I really feel that the first date should include a lot of converstation and the generic getting to know you questions. But it's also a time to see if there is any attraction and chemistry to see if there should be a second date. The first date is all about frist impressions I try to look my best and expect the same from someone else. First dates can be awkward enough so it's best to go somewhere casual. Preferably somewhere for a drink or two to help us relax.