I am looking for a friend or more that I can spend time with. Someone that I am attracted to and who is attracted to me. I believe attraction is about 90% chemistry which is based in everything from physical appearance to conversation to just being able to be at peace around a person. I'm looking for someone I can be myself with and enjoy quality time with and build memories with. If it leads to more then that's great, because I am a marriage minded woman and family oriented, and someday I would like to be a mom...I think I'd make a great wife and mother, but right now I'm a single woman who kind of just wants to enjoy the company of a good friend who makes me want more with him.
As for what I'm attracted to...I am very attracted to manly men...not thugs...not metro sexuals...just a man who is attracted only to women, and can lower his ego enough to have what his emotional life truly calls for, but who has his animalistic side in check enough to be a one woman man. Watchful, protective, but never provoking....Someone who opens doors for me in more ways than one, calls me to see how my day is going or to ask if I need anything including his time...I would do the same for him...I'm looking for the person I can disappear with and come back with a smile on my face.
If you want to know more specifics about me...ask me 3 questions that are not of a sexual nature nor offensive and I will answer.
For you men who don't like weave...and will let a hairstyle dictate your dating life...I wear my hair natural at times, but I also wear weaves and I don't plan on changing that about myself so I need a man who thinks the change up is sexy, because I do get a kick out playing with my hair, and for you men who only like women shaped like boys or extra hard body fit...I don't know what to tell you...I'm working out and getting fitter, but hey my curves aren't going anywhere, and I don't plan on ever getting too skinny. I like my curves and I need a man who likes them too, because when he's turned on by me that makes us work so much better. I'm not for everybody, so don't even bother me with what you think a woman should be...this woman is exactly who she is. I'm loving, I'm kind, I'm giving, I'm smart and I play chess too :o) and I think my packaging is pretty good, but it's what's inside of me that the right man will be most attracted to.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
... meet and vibe and see if we actually want to go on a date...if we have good chemistry on our first meet, then we could go on a real date.