Hi!! I have been looking for a while now and not finding what i am looking for.. with over 200k members you would think there would be a possibility of finding that special someone... that person that makes my heart leap every time i see them. That makes me feel safe when he holds me. That makes me feel like everything we are challenged with we dont have to face alone. That person that wants to share the joys in life and love with me. Someone who makes me excited everytime i see my phone ring and it is them...Where are you??
I am here to hopefully connect with someone who will "fit" me. No.. i dont mean sexually .. i mean emotionally mentally spiritually and then if those fit, we can see sexually. If you want to just hookup or FWB pass this ad on. I am not looking for that I want someone who can be my friend first.. which does take a few dates and talking at the least!!
Here is what i am looking for:
*I want someone who is emotionally secure- meaning they can talk about their feelings.
*I am an old-fashioned girl..i want the "romance" I hope someone is out there that still thinks opening doors is a good thing that shows respect and consideration of the other person. I am the type to reach over and open your door if you open mine.. kinda hard these days with auto opening car doors but there is something to be said for that snuck kiss before getting in the car. :)
*I want someone who can enjoy camping, walking along the river, doing the little things that make me smile :)
*I love movies... well everything but horror/gore.
*I enjoy baking- not cooking there is a difference but both are better when done for someone who appreciates them.
*I am looking for someone at least my age! older is fine. but i am not into the daddy thing
*I want to find that someone special that is willing to love me and my kids. and is willing to find time to do that.
*I love to laugh and act goofy (not to the point of embarassment).. i am sarcastic and want someone who wont be offended by that.
*I am not going to say looks arent important but beauty (and sexual attraction) are in the eye of the beholder and differ from person to person so that varies with the person.
*I want to find someone who doesnt make sex the end all be all of a relationship... i do enjoy sex dont get me wrong but it is not the main component of any relationship .. well except for in a fwb situation which i am not looking for. :)
*I want someone who will enjoy going out to a fancy restaurant and getting dressed up to do that but also who can just hang out in jeans and a tshirt and be comfortable in both.
Maybe i want too much .. but i will look til i find it.. at my age, it is pointless to settle as that does not lead to a long-term relationship... :)
happy hunting and i hope to hear from you soon!!
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When I go on a first date, I hope for it to be in a place where we can talk, learn about eachother and see if we can find some common ground. The location could be anywhere. Starbucks or Jamba juice and a walk in a park. A meet and hang out location not too loud so compatability can be checked yet somewhere comfortable where we can be ourselves.
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