This may be rude but you have no idea the type of men I've met on these sites. Lot's of catfish. I'm a lot nicer than this but I hate playing games. To keep from wasting each other's time because time is something you don't get back, I think it's best that I tell you what i want. However, I won't hold everyone accountable for the mistakes of a few men so if you are a sweet gentlemen and we click, my preference doesn't matter. I like educated and financially stable men. I don't want your money, I have my own however, I refuse to take care of a man. I got tricked once, it won't happen again. Also don't mention your d**k size to me. It's not going to change my lack of interest in you. That's disgusting and disrespectful. I'm a lady and a very attractive one. I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for love and companion. I refuse to lower my standards. Please don't message me to tell me I'm a ****. If knowing what I want makes me a ****, then I'm a **** and proud of it.
I am 30 years old but very old school. I have two Bachelors from the University of Michigan, I have a masters from AMU and am pursuing a second masters. I work in a specialty MOS in the Army. I currently work for a three letter agency. I'm willing to try anything as long as its rational. I love to read and cuddle. I am very affectionate and passionate but I love my space so if I tell you to go have a guys night don't be upset, I just want to miss you. I prefer men who are challenging. I also enjoy my independence however I know how to let a man be a man. I love to cook and can be adventurous ie sky diving if I'm with the right person.
If you don't like what I have on my page do what mature adults do and move on to the next. Don't message me your opinion. I really don't care. Either you're interested or you're not. It's really that simple. I know what I want and what I'm compatible with. If you are offended then clearly I'm not compatible with you. What's to talk about?
The first date isn't really a date. It's more of an meeting to assess if we are who we state we are and if there is compatibility. I always pay for myself and sometimes my date because I never want my date to feel used if we aren't compatible. Also because I appreciate his company. Second date is more fun! A deep conversation while walking through a park is more meaningful than an expensive dinner. You don't need to try to buy my affection. I'll gladly give it if you're worth it.