This may be rude but you have no idea the type of men I've met on these sites. Lot's of catfish and racist white men such as Leosfan and overall ignorant men to be exact. I'm a real person with a Facebook so just ask. I'm a lot nicer than this but I hate playing games. To keep from wasting each other's time because time is something you don't get back, I think it's best that I tell you what i want. However, I won't hold everyone accountable for the mistakes of a few men so if you are a sweet gentlemen and we click, my preference doesn't matter. I like educated and financially stable men. I don't want your money, I have my own however, I refuse to take care of a man. I got tricked once, it won't happen again. Also don't mention your d**k size to me. It's not going to change my lack of interest in you. That's disgusting and disrespectful. I'm a lady and a very attractive one. I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for love and companion. I refuse to lower my standards. Please don't message me to tell me I'm a ****. If knowing what I want makes me a ****, then I'm a **** and proud of it.
I am 30 years old but very old school. I have two Bachelors from the University of Michigan, I have a masters from AMU and am pursuing a second masters. I work in a specialty MOS in the Army. I currently work for a three letter agency. I'm willing to try anything as long as its rational. I love to read and cuddle. I am very affectionate and passionate but I love my space so if I tell you to go have a guys night don't be upset, I just want to miss you. I prefer men who are challenging. I also enjoy my independence however I know how to let a man be a man. I love to cook and can be adventurous ie sky diving if I'm with the right person.
If you don't like what I have on my page do what mature adults do and move on to the next. Don't message me your opinion. I really don't care. Either you're interested or you're not. It's really that simple. I know what I want and what I'm compatible with. If you are offended then clearly I'm not compatible with you. What's to talk about?
The first date isn't really a date. It's more of an meeting to assess if we are who we state we are and if there is compatibility. I always pay for myself and sometimes my date because I never want my date to feel used if we aren't compatible. Also because I appreciate his company. Second date is more fun! A deep conversation while walking through a park is more meaningful than an expensive dinner. You don't need to try to buy my affection. I'll gladly give it if you're worth it.