I enjoy relaxing in the evenings and spending time at home. I will go out every now and again, but for the most part I am a homebody. I like to fly kites and I am trying to teach myself how to do kite boarding. I am career focused and goal oriented. I work hard and am successful in what I do, and I am looking for someone to share my time with. I enjoy listening to music and enjoying a glass of wine every now and again and some good conversation. I am a bit old fashioned and believe that a man should make the first move. If you send me a message, I will respond.
I am looking for passion, I want to be pursued like the precious jewel that I am. I am loyal, kind, driven, and ambitious. I fear God and little else. I take care of myself and I am not in need of someone to provide for me, I am independent and self sufficient.
As for what I am looking for in a man, he commands attention without saying a word, he inspires others to better themselves, and it would be an honor to be a reflection of him. He is universal, speaks the truth, honors God, and respects women and the life they bring forth.
Just to let you know....first and foremost not interested in a hook up or sexting. I'm not going to send you pictures that will compromise my integrity or behave in any way online that I would not behave in person. I like a man that puts God first and values his relationship with God so much that he won't live in such a way to separate himself from that commitment. If you are living right by God then we will always be straight, not delusion or seeking perfection by any means . Just saying that who I am looking for should have faith and trust in God to be his perfecter. I try very hard to not be judge mental, and as long as we are honest in our expectations, I have found that if given the opportunity through honest dialog, I appreciate knowing what I am getting into and can make an informed decision if it is something that I can accept and exercise patience, understanding, and be supportive as we grow in the development of the relationship. I am a very loyal person and once it is established that your character is one of integrity, I am the type of person that is selfless enough to go out of my way to build you up and encourage you in your endeavors to be successful and rise to a maturity that others strive to emulate your efforts and achieve successes by the example you lead.
I am a mother of two, and I take that role very seriously. I am very selective, and for good reason. I am in a place in my life that I acknowledge the need for positive examples for my children. The type of man that eventually meets my children will be a man that will show my son how women should be treated by his observation of how you treat me as his mother. The same is to be said when it comes to my daughter as well. She will observe and learn how a woman should be treated, respected, and honored by your treatment of me. If you are not ready to be the type of man that you would hope the children in your life would seek out as a companion, weather it be your own children, a sibling, a niece/nephew etc., then I am probably not a good match for you. I am by no means saying that you would fulfill the role of their father, as I have been blessed that he puts his children first and plays an active roll in their lives. We successfully co-parent them very well and his role in their lives would need to be respected without displays of jealousy or fear of disloyalty and dishonor for the roles we would accept in each other's life.
I embrace my responsibility, and the accountability of living my life in such a way that my daughter and my son have a secure understanding of their worth and value and how my respect, honor, and integrity of my actions towards you as a potential mate are a direct reflection of how they will embrace a positive display of what love can bring to their lives. How it can motivate change, perseverance, success, support, and respect of oneself and others.
I want to strive to become one through being a helpmate that restores your faith in traditional family values and gender roles. A woman that welcomes your role as the head of the household and all that entails. I believe in encouraging your role as the provider, and protector of the family unit in all aspects, physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. I believing in supporting your goals in how to accomplish this, building you up, not tearing you down. Respecting you in all ways so not to discourage you in your efforts of making your dreams a reality. I want to share in your successes that will empower you, encourage you, and propel you on your path of who you are meant to become. I want to be the cheerleader that believes in your ability to overcome any obstacles you may face along your journey. And when you stand in the face of adversity have the confidence in our foundation that nothing can shake what we have built together.
For fun I like music and movies. I like to fly kites....the great big ones.
I date business men. So if your pants are sagging, you're wearing a wife beater as a regular shirt, you do not own dress shirts, you have pictures blowing smoke, you have gold teeth, or you have tattoo's on your face... Please don't try and talk to me. Trust me, I'm saving both of us some valuable time. If you are looking for me to share my phone number, your character will reveal itself in due time and that will tell me if we should take that as a next step...I am not saying that it won't happen, but I prefer to take things slowly and get to know you a little before that would happen.