Starting to think I've reached an impasse here so I'm not really sure what to say so I'll ask, whats keeping you from messaging? I don't use the Meet Me feature or respond to others who use it as their only means of communication. Don't be shy show off that personality by sending a message, it's a little more personal not to mention a better ice breaker providing it's more than a mere word or two. Also, it seperates the ones who read profiles (not that we really gain much from them) from those who solely judge from a pic. I have my own place, car, income, hopeful in meeting a like minded individual everything else is relative.
**Probably should mention I do work 2nd Mon - Fri which poses a bit of a challenge when trying to meet someone new.