I sing and dance when I get bored. I play video games and am told it is tiring to watch me play (I move around a lot and it's not even on Wii or Kinect). I like to stay in motion, I try to say hello to everyone I know when I see them. I try to stay in touch with my inner-child. I am annoyed by people that use bad grammar and misspelled words on purpose. I know what I want in life as far as career and relationship terms. I am not opposed to making new friends. Just don't be a flake or a fake.
I am the kind of person that will give people compliments for the sole intention of giving them a compliment. If I find you attractive, think you have nice eyes or a great smile, or that I find your profile interesting, I might send you a message saying so. I understand that most girls on here get bombarded with douchebags and losers just wanting to get laid and feel it necessary to message every girl. I have begun to only message someone when they message me first. So send me a message, I do try to respond.
I am a bit old fashioned. I believe that the guy should pay for dates, open doors, bring flowers, etc. I do believe that there is a difference between going on a date and meeting up.
I want somebody that is honest and isn't afraid to be who they are. Someone that holds themselves to the same rules they want a guy to follow. If you can't tell, I've met my share of liars, deceivers, and girls with double standards. I am an honest and up-front person that will answer any question with a true answer. I love to have fun and can usually find humor in every situation. That generally means I get in trouble occasionally for making a joke at the wrong time. Like I said, I like making people laugh and feel good. I have a tendency to be a little shy at first, but after 10-15 minutes I'm good. My shyness usually makes it hard for me to start a conversation. One thing I can't stand is when people suddenly just stop talking/texting. Either don't start or be mature enough to say something. I am so over wasting my time on girls that think the best way to handle a situation is to just ignore it. I have met a few girls from here, some were really cool, but flaked out after a while. NO FLAKES. If we hang out and you don't see it going further than just a friendship, tell me. I'm a big boy and I will tell you how I feel. I won't try to change your mind, beg, or get in your pants. I will show you how awesome of a friend I can be. I don't pretend that I am perfect, and I admit that have made mistakes, especially when it comes to dating, but I am an honest person and I never lie. My work and school schedules make it hard for me to go out on dates, so that is something that would have to be accepted and worked around. I am a very goal driven person. When I set a goal for myself, I stop at nothing till I have it. I need someone that has a similar work ethic as me. If you aren't striving to reach a goal, most likely we won't get along too well. I can explain further if you want. I like seeing that I have a new message and I almost always respond, so don't be afraid to send me one.
AND FINALLY: If you are going to send me a message, it has to be more than just "Hey, Hi, Hello, etc." That's what you can put in the subject line. I don't care if you tell me I look like a hobbit or tell me the lamest joke ever (by the by... you will completely have my attention if you do that, I love lame/cheesy jokes). Just no one word messages. If you only send me a one word message, don't expect a reply. I try to respond to everyone, but that doesn't always happen. I don't send out many messages because most the time I don't get a response. If I send a message to you first, it means I am interested in talking/getting to know you. I'm not going to try and hookup right away. Believe it or not, there are some guys that aren't just looking for sex. It may sound stupid, but I enjoy seeing that I have a message. But like I said, don't just say hey.
Before I take a girl out on a date, I try to find out she likes to do. Dinner and a movie is fine, but I like to make a good impression. To me, I think a first date would be more memorable if you did something that you don't usually do. Plus you can't talk during a movie.