I'm currently building my first house (on a river up north, in cottage country) but work in the city.
I love to travel, stay active, and I like to be spontaneous and have fun...because after all, life is supposed to be an adventure, right? ;)
Someone once said: "The extraordinary is in what we do, not in who we are."
Something casual and light that could evoke (or at least allow) some good conversation is always a good start. I think keeping it simple makes for a lot less tension...and of course, an easier getaway if it's not quite a match. ;)