Diversity and variety is a good thing, and I am sorry that some people in the match community has a issue with my personal preference.
Hi, I am a black women who dates Asian men.
So what does that mean? This means I prefer to date men of minority and in particular Asian and Black men.
Does that mean I discount other races? No this does not.
As you can see I am not not a petite and/or frail person. I have always lead an active-healthy lifestyle, and this year I decided to challenge myself with few fitness and training goals which includes slimming down and working on my endurance, strength, and flexibility.
On December 27, 2014 cut my hair, in fact 9.4 inches to be exact in support of my aunt who has breast cancer. A selfless act because she was losing her hair. It only hair and it does grow back.
WHAT CAN I BRING TO THE TABLE
- I am educated, and I used my experience to help others
- I am fiercely loyal, and as your partner I will challenge, inspire and motivate you to be better
- I will keep you grounded and keep your ego in check
- I would be there for you in your hour of need
KEYWORDS WHICH DESCRIBES MY PERSONALITY
eloquent, conservative, fascinating, sophisticated, enterprising, humanitarian, responsible, self-less, venturesome, conscientious, dependable, logical, gallant, imaginative, confident, ebullient, and sometime meticulous.
LEARNING ABOUT OTHER CULTURES
In college I minored in Japanese culture, art and language. After the birth of my second daughter I shifted focus to Chinese culture and language.
My little daughter speaks fluent Mandarin Chinese, however my Chinese.....hmmmmmmm let's just say I am working it.
Currently learning Chinese (Mandarin)
ACTIVITIES I ENJOY DOING
Weight training, jogging, walking, hiking, aerial yoga, muay thai, jujitsu, dancing and ballet conditioning.
Acrobatics, health and fitness, technology, painting, design, cooking and baking, motorcycles, adventurous sports, and watching Japanese anime, in fact and one of my favorite series is “Claymore” by Norihiro Yagi.
THINGS I WOULD LIKE TO TRY
Sky driving or cliff driving, scuba diving (first I should learn how to swim...lol), ziplining, competing on food networks chopped amateur chef version, and a bunch of other stuff I have not gotten to yet.
In 2016 I will be vacationing to Bali and Taiwan, also planning a trip to China so my daughter can meet her extended family.
80/20 RULE / THE PARETO PRINCIPLE
Most men and women are looking for perfection and perfection doesn't exist. In fact you will never get 100% of what you want.
Here is a conundrum, you have 80% and someone come along with the missing 20% that you do not have, but you don't feel like that person completes your 100%. So you find someone else who looks like 40%, however this person falls short and is -40% the and you do not realize it until it's too late, now you think to yourself that you should've stayed with the original 80%...lol