You know it is funny your whole life you are told that you would find someone, start dating, fall in love, get married, have children, and live happily ever after. So what happens when you do all of those things except for the happily ever after? Starting over is never fun! Anyway I find myself alone after 8 years of marriage and honestly let me just tell you it sucks! So here is a little about me: I know a lot of guys say this but I generally am a nice guy and a gentleman. Hard to believe right but that is how I was raised. My dad thought me that opening doors and "ladies first" was what real men did so that is what I do and what I teach my sons to do. I know people say nice guys finish last but it won't stop me from being that way. The world would be a better place if people would be a little nicer. That being said don't mistake my kindness for weakness, just because I prefer to be a nice guy doesn't mean I will let you walk all over me either. Yes I do have children and no I am not a dead dad. My kids are my world.