Let me start off by saying that I'm not interested in hook ups and meaningless flings. If you're only looking for a piece, check out the girl a couple profiles down.
What you see is what you'll get. However, it would be great to know that something other than my appearance intrigues you.
My idea of perfection has more to do with how the man makes me feel when I'm with him (and more so when I'm not). To me, success has more to do with how passionate he is about his work than how much money he makes.
I have high standards for myself and am ONLY attracted to men who take care of themselves well also. Physically, I am attracted to men 5'10" and up. I prefer a man with low body fat so his muscles are defined; athletic not muscular.
One more thing; I am a mommy first. I have responsibilities to take care of, and finding a great guy to spend time with will be icing on the cake.
The bottom line is; look good, take care of yourself, be happy, live with passion, know how to treat a girl, and be real :).
P.S. My profile states that I am divorced. It is inevitable, but it is taking some time to iron out the details. He lives in another state and we have been living separate lives for 3 1/2 years. Things will take time - just want to be honest. If you have a problem with this, perhaps our time to meet is in the future.