Some people are super serious about everything: dating, life, work... If that's you, we won't fit. I'm not looking for a complete hack either. Just a balance. I appreciate someone who takes care of herself, is thoughtful, honest, and knows how NOT TO take herself, or life, too seriously all of the time. About me: Ambitious and fun. I enjoy good conversation, great people, all kinds of music, a good meal (in or out), exercise, relaxing at the movies, and definitely travel. Spontaneity is not a four letter word. A creative soul at heart: I've written a few books and enjoy playing the piano. I prefer summer to winter, outdoors to indoors, and laughter over stress. I've been told I don't look my age-and have only God and Grandma to thank for that. I'm definitely not average, and surely unique: When God made me, He broke the mold. (I heard He beat the hell out of the mold maker too!) Seriously, there's only one me, but if you didn't laugh at that-or at least chuckle, you're probably a little to serious for me. I'm in a pretty good place right now in life, thank God for all I've got, and look forward to spending time with someone who has similar ambitions, interests, and attitude to see where things go.