My plans in Cali have changed and I am looking for people to do stuff with, like go to movies, bbqs, the beach, parties, clubs, bars, stay at home and watch a flick, etc. I am NOT looking for you to fall for me or me to fall for you. If that happens, cool. If it doesn't, that's fine too. It would be awesome to connect with someone who could be more than JUST a friend but who I could also be intimate with if there is chemistry there.
If you are looking for a one night stand, please keep looking, there are LOTS of girls here for that, I am not!
I am looking for something with more substance. I am looking for a relationship with someone who respects me and whom I can respect in return. I am not looking for sex, or just sex, but I also don't want to be exclusive right out of the gate. I'd like to get to know people, have fun and see where the journey takes us.
FACTS ABOUT ME:
I am a redhead and YES! I am fiery!
I'm a BIG girl and am working on losing weight. I have lost about 45 pounds so far, but still big.
I eat healthy 85% of the time, forget to eat 10% of the time and eat junk 5% of the time.
I actually LIKE working out and lifting weights.
I LOVE country music. If you hate country, we're probably not going to get along.
I love all wieners equally, just as long as they're BIG! NO! I DONT JUST WANT SEX! *sighs*
I like anything that glitters and sparkles.
Nascar is AWESOME! Watching guys drive around in circles all day and never getting anywhere ROCKS!!! What can I say? It's the country girl in me!
My ONLY goal is to hunt a bear and feed it sooo much honey that it goes into a coma so I can use it as a rug in my living room.
I'm also sarcastic and silly. I say nerdy stuff and laugh at my own jokes (which are RARELY funny). I like to laugh at myself and try NOT to take myself too seriously.
One note: I am a BIG girl. As I said before, I have lost about 50 pounds, however, I am STILL a BIG girl. I plan on losing another 100 pounds before the year is over, however, if this bothers you, then please keep on moving. I don't want someone who WANTS me to gain weight: feeders look elsewhere. I DO want someone who sees the loveliness that is in me. I want to be with someone who is athletic and who will encourage me to lose weight but who won't be a****when I have a bad week or make a bad decision. Ultimately, I want a partner in crime. Someone to do stuff with and laugh at life with. If that's you, great! If not, that's okay too!
I love shooting guns, fishing and hitting the ball at the batting cage. Don't get me wrong, I am a girlie girl. I love makeup, pink, painting my nails and doing my hair and high heels, BUT, I also love being a tomboy and kicking ass too!
I have decided that I need to add that you MUST like dogs to hang with me. I have chihuahuas and I completely adore them. They are 10 and 7 and the cutest monsters in the world. If this bothers you, then we aren't going to work out well. I'm sorry but this is the ONLY thing I'm NOT negotiable on.
Okay, that is all...
Hmmmmmm, that is so hard but I think first dates should be fun and a forum where you can get to know each other. There are so many places to go and things to see in LA so I'd say some fun things to do would be eat at a hot dog stand or somewhere super casual and then maybe go mini golfing, to the zoo, Downtown Disney, bowling can be fun but often it's hard to actually talk to someone when you're one on one bowling. I think keeping it fun, casual, and out in the open so that neither party feels pressured is the best! Movies SUCK for first dates, yeah I went there. Honestly, you don't get to know the other person at all and then you get home and are like "WTF? I spent two hours with someone and I didn't even notice their eye color, let alone what they like to watch on television", I'm just sayin though. I just want to have fun, NO DRAMA, and meet some nice people!