I am looking for a good woman; one that might be willing to have a child or two (her not wanting kids isn't a show stopper, but might be cause for pause). She is happy, but not manic. Kind to others; willing to take a few chances, but wants safety. The headline is the title of a book I read. I'm a Christian, but not perfect. I sing in my church choir, and lead singing on occasion. I'm a computer programmer, but that's my job, not my life; I may change careers eventually, but not looking at that imminently. I've got two daughters, one grown (1988, married and in military), one mostly grown (has toddler, soon to be 1989, at WSU-TC, jury is still out on how grown she is). I don't drink to excess; I run a mean BBQ (smokin' hot). I haven't danced in a while, but willing to pick it up again (I used to line dance quite a bit). I can keep up with most people, but high-maintenance, over the top, social butterfly, work-out 6-days/week, energizer bunnies would be probably more than I am looking for. A woman needs to take the time to stop and cuddle, or just go for a stroll to catch my attention.
I guess that would depend on the date. A nice restaurant, morning fishing, mini-golf (do they still do that around here?), or just a cup of coffee. Whatever would make her smile, that I think would make for a good first date.