wantstruelove
Age: 42
Long term
jxdvs: Looking for a (really) good man
About
Non-smoker with Average body type
City
Virginia beach, Virginia
Details
46 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Baptist
Ethnicity
Caucasian Gemini with Brown hair
Intent
jxdvs is looking for a relationship.
Education
Graduate degree
Personality
Animal Lover
Profession
IT


dating
Hollow Scream 2013






I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? Prefer not to say
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat & Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 10 years



About Me
My friends would describe me as funny with a sarcastic bent, quick-witted, and very smart. Okay fine, that's how I would describe me. My friends would probably offer that I'm well-mannered and know lots of useless trivia. I like my independence, but would like to have someone to go and do things with, movies, dinner, coffee. I am sort of a gym rat, and try to work out 4-5 times a week. My current favorite is spinning, and if you haven't tried it, then please don't. It's for crazy people who like to sweat profusely and walk around with sore legs and butt (have you seen those seats??). Other than that, I am a happy person, very active in my church (I teach Sunday school), and pretty content with my life. I am a dog person, and have a couple of very bad beagles. I like historical novels, all kinds of music (except country), and HGTV. Ugh, quite the nerd. But wait! I also like suspense novels, Pink, and...FOOTBALL! See, not such a nerd after all.

I'm not an incomplete person looking for someone to make me whole, or someone who is lonely and broken without someone in my life. I don't think it is the job of someone I am dating to complete me, or fulfill me in any way. I think dating is about finding someone to have fun with, someone you enjoy being with, without hanging all your hopes and dreams on that person. We are social creatures, made to be in community with others - but I have learned that I must be whole and happy by myself, and just look for that "happy bonus" that another person can bring.

I love C.S. Lewis, and he said “To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket- safe, dark, motionless, airless--it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.”

Good luck and happy fishing!

First Date
First meeting would be something easy and quick - maybe a coffee where we both have a friend on speed dial, just in case things get awkward quickly...


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