I'm pretty calm and easygoing. I'll listen to most anything, but love U2 and STP, The Cult, Muse, Red Hot Chili Peppers, blues, jazz, electronica and house club music, classic rock and sometimes I'll sing along to country music but provide my own lyrics.
I would love to walk over the Brooklyn Bridge or in one of the great parks, maybe rent a bike. Grab a bite to eat for lunch, try and catch an outdoor show or concert in a park. Go drink and laugh at a comedy club. Something as simple as meeting at Starbucks, or as ambitious as going hang-gliding (well that might be a better 2nd or 3rd date)